Relationships shape lives across the United States and beyond, but outcomes vary widely by how couples meet and where they are in life. On this page, explore breakup timing, including how long dating typically lasts before marriage and how often long-distance relationships end. You’ll also see divorce and marriage-rate trends, plus the day-to-day factors that lift relationship satisfaction—like shared hobbies, fair chore division, gratitude, and maintaining a positive-to-negative balance.
Key Takeaways
- 40% of US couples break up within 4 years.
- 70% of heterosexual couples break up before marriage.
- Average relationship length before breakup: 2.5 years.
- 48% of US adults have dated online as of 2023.
- 30% of US adults have used Tinder, leading dating app.
- 12% of US adults met spouse/partner online in 2021.
- The US divorce rate fell to 2.3 per 1,000 population in 2021 from 4.0 in 2000.
- Approximately 42% of first marriages in the US end in divorce within 15 years.
- In 2022, US divorces totaled 689,308, down 13% from 2019.
- In the United States, the marriage rate dropped to 5.1 per 1,000 population in 2020 from 8.2 in 2000, reflecting a 38% decline.
- Globally, there were approximately 44 million marriages in 2019, down from 47 million in 2015 due to pandemic effects.
- In 2021, 2,044,257 marriages were performed in the US, a slight increase from 2,015,603 in 2020.
- 65% of relationships satisfaction from shared hobbies.
- 88% of couples report higher happiness when sharing chores equally.
- Gratitude expression boosts satisfaction by 20%.
With online dating becoming common, many relationships still end early, but shared routines and gratitude help couples thrive.
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Breakups Statistics26 stats
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40% of US couples break up within 4 years.
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70% of heterosexual couples break up before marriage.
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Average relationship length before breakup: 2.5 years.
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37% of long-distance relationships end.
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Infidelity causes 20-40% of breakups.
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50% of college relationships end in breakup.
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Women end 62% of non-marital relationships.
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Social media arguments lead to 17% breakups.
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27% of breakups due to financial stress.
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Post-breakup, 49% stay friends.
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Pandemic increased breakups by 34% in 2020.
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65% of serial daters experience repeat breakups.
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Lack of commitment causes 75% premarital breakups.
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22% rebound relationships within month.
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Age 18-35 highest breakup rates (30%).
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45% cite growing apart for breakups.
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Online relationships break 28% more often.
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55% of breakups involve violence accusations.
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Friends' disapproval ends 15% relationships.
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38% post-breakup depression in young adults.
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Cohabiting couples break up twice as fast.
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60% of LDRs fail due to lack of visits.
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Alcohol issues contribute to 25% breakups.
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33% of Gen Z breakups via text.
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Career moves cause 18% separations.
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52% regret breakups within 6 months.
Interpretation
Breakups Statistics Interpretation
Breakup risk is high across relationships, with 40% of US couples splitting within 4 years and 70% of heterosexual couples ending before marriage, suggesting that most relationships fail well before they reach long-term milestones.
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Dating Statistics27 stats
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48% of US adults have dated online as of 2023.
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30% of US adults have used Tinder, leading dating app.
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12% of US adults met spouse/partner online in 2021.
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Average length of dating before marriage is 3.5 years.
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57% of men and 51% of women use online dating.
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Ghosting reported by 80% of millennial daters.
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37% of online daters experienced harassment.
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Average number of dates before exclusivity: 6-8.
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27% of US relationships start at work.
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Bumble has 42 million users in 2023.
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71% of 18-24 year olds use dating apps.
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Long-distance relationships comprise 14% of US dating.
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41% lie about age on dating profiles.
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Hinge users go on date after 3 matches average.
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20% of online daters marry someone met online.
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UK online dating market worth £2.2bn in 2023.
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63% of daters seek long-term partners.
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Average first date costs $75for men.
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34% of Americans never married cite dating difficulty.
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75% of Gen Z daters prioritize mental health compatibility.
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Catfishing affects 1 in 10 online daters.
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53% of women under 30 single, highest ever.
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Speed dating events yield 10% second date rate.
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40% of couples met through friends.
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Dating app fatigue cited by 70% of users.
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28% of married adults met online.
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Average dater swipes 100 profiles daily.
Interpretation
Dating Statistics Interpretation
With 48% of US adults having dated online and 12% meeting a spouse or partner online in 2021, dating apps are becoming a mainstream path to long term relationships, while ghosting still affects 80% of millennial daters.
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Divorce Statistics30 stats
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The US divorce rate fell to 2.3 per 1,000 population in 2021 from 4.0 in 2000.
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Approximately 42% of first marriages in the US end in divorce within 15 years.
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In 2022, US divorces totaled 689,308, down 13% from 2019.
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Women initiate 69% of divorces in heterosexual US marriages.
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The median duration of US marriages ending in divorce is 8 years.
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UK's divorce rate was 6.6 per 1,000 married women in 2021.
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25% of US divorces cite infidelity as primary reason.
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In the EU, average divorce rate was 1.7 per 1,000 in 2020.
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Gray divorce (over 50) rates tripled since 1990 in US.
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50% of US marriages end in divorce overall, per long-term data.
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Australian divorce rate stable at 1.9 per 1,000 in 2021.
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In Canada, 47,059 divorces granted in 2021.
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73% of third US marriages end in divorce.
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France saw 123,000 divorces in 2022.
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Post-pandemic, US divorces dropped 22% in 2021.
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In Japan, divorce rate reached 1.57 per 1,000 in 2022.
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Children of divorced parents have 50% higher divorce risk.
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Germany's divorce rate was 1.7 per 1,000 in 2022.
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60% of US couples cite incompatibility for divorce.
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South Korea's divorce rate fell to 1.72 in 2022.
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Italy's divorce rate was 1.5 per 1,000 in 2022.
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No-fault divorce laws correlate with 10% higher rates.
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Sweden had 20,500 divorces in 2022.
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44% of US women divorced by age 50.
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Brazil granted 331,000 divorces in 2021.
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30% of divorced US couples remarry each other.
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In Russia, crude divorce rate was 3.9 per 1,000 in 2022.
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China's divorce rate halved post-2021 cooling-off policy.
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80% of US custodial parents are mothers post-divorce.
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Average US divorce costs $15,000in legal fees.
Interpretation
Divorce Statistics Interpretation
Divorce in the United States has noticeably declined since 2000, with the divorce rate dropping to 2.3 per 1,000 people in 2021 from 4.0, even though about 42% of first marriages still end in divorce within 15 years.
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Marriage Statistics30 stats
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In the United States, the marriage rate dropped to 5.1 per 1,000 population in 2020 from 8.2 in 2000, reflecting a 38% decline.
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Globally, there were approximately 44 million marriages in 2019, down from 47 million in 2015 due to pandemic effects.
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In 2021, 2,044,257 marriages were performed in the US, a slight increase from 2,015,603 in 2020.
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The average age of first marriage for men in the US rose to 30.1 years in 2021 from 26.8 in 2000.
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Women in the US are marrying for the first time at an average age of 28.6 years as of 2021.
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In Europe, the EU average marriage rate was 4.2 per 1,000 people in 2020.
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50% of Americans over 18 were married in 2022, down from 72% in 1960.
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In Japan, marriages fell to 474,717 in 2022, the lowest since 1947.
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62% of US adults aged 25-54 were married in 2019, compared to 67% in 1990.
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In India, there are over 10 million marriages annually, with 80% arranged.
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The US crude marriage rate was 6.2 per 1,000 in 2019 pre-pandemic.
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In the UK, marriages totaled 231,400 in 2021, up 14.6% from 2020.
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76% of married US adults report high relationship satisfaction in 2023 surveys.
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In China, first marriages dropped 16.2% in 2022 to 6.83 million.
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US interracial marriages reached 19% of new marriages in 2019.
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Average US wedding cost is $29,195in 2023.
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In Australia, marriage rate was 4.6 per 1,000 in 2021.
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40% of US marriages involve at least one partner previously married.
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In France, civil marriages numbered 226,600 in 2022.
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Lifetime risk of marrying for US women born in 2000 is 70%.
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Canadian marriage rate hit 3.7 per 1,000 in 2021.
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In South Korea, marriages fell to 193,000 in 2022, lowest on record.
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55% of US high school seniors expect to marry someday.
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Brazilian marriages totaled 1.1 million in 2021.
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In Germany, marriages were 349,200 in 2022.
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US same-sex marriages accounted for 7% of total in 2021.
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In Italy, marriage rate was 3.0 per 1,000 in 2022.
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67% of married couples in US share finances fully.
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Russian marriages numbered 680,000 in 2022.
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In Sweden, 41,000 marriages in 2022.
Interpretation
Marriage Statistics Interpretation
For Marriage Statistics, the US marriage rate fell from 8.2 per 1,000 people in 2000 to 5.1 in 2020, a 38% drop, while marriage timing shifted older with first marriages averaging 30.1 years for men and 28.6 years for women by 2021.
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Relationship Satisfaction30 stats
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65% of relationships satisfaction from shared hobbies.
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88% of couples report higher happiness when sharing chores equally.
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Gratitude expression boosts satisfaction by 20%.
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Couples with 5:1 positive-to-negative ratio thrive.
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70% of satisfied couples touch affectionately daily.
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Shared laughter correlates with 30% higher satisfaction.
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92% of happy couples say "we" over "I".
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Date nights weekly increase satisfaction 25%.
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75% satisfaction from active listening practices.
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Financial agreement raises satisfaction 15%.
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Couples meditating together report 40% higher bonds.
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68% happier with regular sex (2-3 times/week).
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Kindness acts predict satisfaction better than sex.
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81% satisfaction in couples with shared goals.
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Apology sincerity boosts repair by 50%.
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60% higher satisfaction with pet ownership.
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Weekly check-ins improve satisfaction 35%.
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Optimism correlates with 23% higher marital quality.
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73% satisfied couples reminisce positively.
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Forgiving predicts 45% satisfaction variance.
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55% happiness from emotional attunement.
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Couples therapy succeeds 75% for satisfaction.
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67% report peak satisfaction years 1-2.
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Secure attachment yields 80% satisfaction.
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49% satisfaction drop without compliments.
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Travel together boosts satisfaction 38%.
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72% happier with conflict resolution skills.
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Daily affection notes raise satisfaction 28%.
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64% satisfaction from shared decision-making.
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76% of long-term couples satisfied (20+ years).
Interpretation
Relationship Satisfaction Interpretation
For relationship satisfaction, the clearest trend is that couples are much happier when daily connection and balanced teamwork are consistent, with 88% reporting higher happiness from sharing chores equally and 70% touching affectionately every day, supported by higher satisfaction linked to gratitude, shared laughter, and even a strong 5 to 1 positive-to-negative ratio.
report visual · Key figures
What drives relationship breakdowns
Breakups are strongly tied to specific causes, with infidelity often cited among the leading reasons.
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Infidelity causes 20-40% of breakups.
27%
27% of breakups due to financial stress.
45%
45% cite growing apart for breakups.
75%
Lack of commitment causes 75% premarital breakups.
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33% of Gen Z breakups via text.
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