25.8 percent of lesbians report rape, sexual coercion, or forced penetration. 20.7 percent report being stalked. 29 percent report psychological aggression by a partner.
Key Takeaways
- 25.8% of lesbians reported having experienced rape, being made to penetrate, or sexual coercion
- 7.1% of lesbians reported having experienced sexual violence involving a weapon
- 20.7% of lesbians reported being stalked
- 14.5% of lesbians reported experiencing coercive control (emotional abuse) by an intimate partner
- 12.9% of lesbians reported experiencing intimate partner violence involving threats
- 8.2% of lesbians reported experiencing intimate partner violence involving stalking
- 10% of lesbian women reported experiencing sexual violence in their lifetime
- 2.5% of lesbian women reported experiencing sexual coercion by an intimate partner in the past 12 months
- 20.3% of lesbians reported experiencing non-partner sexual violence
- 38% of lesbian and bisexual women reported at least one barrier to getting help for IPV
- 19% of lesbian and bisexual survivors reported fear of being judged by service providers
- 16% of lesbian and bisexual survivors reported fear that their identity would not be respected
- 31% of IPV survivors reported PTSD symptoms (meta-analysis estimate)
- 14% of IPV survivors reported substance misuse problems after abuse (meta-analysis estimate)
- 35% of IPV survivors reported depression symptoms
Nearly a quarter of lesbians experience intimate partner violence, with significant rates of sexual violence and stalking.
Related reading
01 · Category
Lgbtq+ Victimization10 stats
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25.8% of lesbians reported having experienced rape, being made to penetrate, or sexual coercionhttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4405424/
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7.1% of lesbians reported having experienced sexual violence involving a weaponhttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4405424/
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20.7% of lesbians reported being stalkedhttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4405424/
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24.8% of lesbians reported experiencing physical violence at the hands of an intimate partnerhttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4405424/
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7.4% of lesbians reported experiencing intimate partner violence in the past 12 monthshttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4405424/
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19.4% of lesbians reported experiencing at least one form of violence (physical, sexual, stalking) from a partnerhttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4405424/
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14.8% of lesbians reported experiencing stalking in their lifetimehttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4405424/
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22% of lesbian women and 25% of bisexual women reported intimate partner violence (lifetime) in a U.S. population studyhttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4994645/
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18% of LGBT survivors reported that abuse started or escalated after they came out (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6197736/
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14% of lesbian survivors reported their partner threatened to reveal their sexual orientation (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4875609/
Interpretation
Lgbtq+ Victimization Interpretation
Nearly a quarter of lesbians, 25.8%, report rape, sexual coercion, or being made to penetrate, and around one in five, 20.7%, report being stalked, showing that sexual and stalking-related abuse are both alarmingly common.
02 · Category
Intimate Partner Violence30 stats
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14.5% of lesbians reported experiencing coercive control (emotional abuse) by an intimate partnerhttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4405424/
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12.9% of lesbians reported experiencing intimate partner violence involving threatshttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4405424/
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8.2% of lesbians reported experiencing intimate partner violence involving stalkinghttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4405424/
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16.6% of lesbians reported experiencing intimate partner violence involving physical injuryhttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4405424/
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3.8% of lesbians reported being forced to have sexual intercourse by an intimate partnerhttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4405424/
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6.4% of lesbian women reported experiencing physical violence by an intimate partner in the past 12 monthshttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4405424/
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3.9% of lesbian women reported experiencing threats by an intimate partner in the past 12 monthshttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4405424/
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11.5% of lesbian women reported experiencing emotional abuse by an intimate partner in the past 12 monthshttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4405424/
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22.2% of lesbians reported being threatened with harmhttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4405424/
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29.0% of lesbian women reported experiencing psychological aggression by a partnerhttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4405424/
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6.7% of lesbian women reported being afraid of a partnerhttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4405424/
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9.2% of lesbians reported that their partner monitored or tracked themhttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4405424/
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34% of lesbian and bisexual women reported emotional violence by a partner (lifetime)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4994645/
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24% of lesbians and 28% of bisexual women reported physical violence by a partner (lifetime)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4994645/
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11% of lesbian and 14% of bisexual women reported stalking by a partner (lifetime)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4994645/
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40% of LGBT survivors reported that their partner threatened them with deportation, custody, or legal consequences (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4875609/
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15% of LGBT survivors reported threats to “out” them as a tactic of abuse (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4875609/
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23% of LGBT survivors reported controlling their access to social support or friends (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6134100/
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31% of LGBT survivors reported partners used social media to monitor or harass (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6134100/
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9% of LGBT survivors reported digital abuse that included nonconsensual sharing of intimate images (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6134100/
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14% of LGBT survivors reported that their partner controlled or confiscated their phone/computer (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6134100/
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21% of lesbian and bisexual women reported partner jealousy related to dating or socializing (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4994645/
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27% of lesbian and bisexual women reported that their partner used intimidation tactics (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4994645/
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13% of lesbian and bisexual women reported physical violence with injury (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4994645/
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25% of lesbians reported coercion tactics (emotional or verbal) by partners (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4994645/
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12% of lesbians reported experiencing cyberstalking in the past year (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6134100/
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7% of lesbians reported nonconsensual image sharing by a partner (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6134100/
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10% of lesbians reported harassment via calls/texts by a partner in the past year (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6134100/
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5% of lesbians reported physical stalking by a partner in the past year (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6134100/
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26% of LGBT survivors reported using safety planning due to fear of retaliation (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4132563/
Interpretation
Intimate Partner Violence Interpretation
Across the data, psychological and emotional abuse is especially widespread, with 29.0% of lesbian women reporting psychological aggression by a partner and 11.5% reporting emotional abuse within the past 12 months.
03 · Category
Sexual Violence9 stats
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10% of lesbian women reported experiencing sexual violence in their lifetimehttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4405424/
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2.5% of lesbian women reported experiencing sexual coercion by an intimate partner in the past 12 monthshttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4405424/
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20.3% of lesbians reported experiencing non-partner sexual violencehttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4405424/
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2.9% of lesbian women reported being raped or made to penetrate by a partner in the past 12 monthshttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4405424/
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8.6% of lesbian women reported experiencing sexual violence by a partner that involved physical force in their lifetimehttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4405424/
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5.1% of lesbians reported being coerced into sex by a partnerhttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4405424/
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16% of lesbian and 18% of bisexual women reported sexual violence by a partner (lifetime)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4994645/
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8% of lesbian and bisexual women reported forced sex in their lifetime (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4994645/
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6% of lesbian and bisexual women reported forced sex in the past year (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4994645/
Interpretation
Sexual Violence Interpretation
Sexual violence affects a substantial share of lesbian women, with 10% reporting sexual violence in their lifetime and 2.9% reporting rape or being made to penetrate by a partner in the past 12 months.
More related reading
04 · Category
Access And Barriers30 stats
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38% of lesbian and bisexual women reported at least one barrier to getting help for IPVhttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6134100/
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19% of lesbian and bisexual survivors reported fear of being judged by service providershttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6134100/
03
16% of lesbian and bisexual survivors reported fear that their identity would not be respectedhttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6134100/
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11% of LGBT survivors reported that police responded poorly when they sought help for IPVhttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4875609/
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24% of lesbian survivors reported they did not report IPV because they feared their partner would retaliatehttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4875609/
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30% of lesbian survivors reported a lack of services tailored to sexual orientationhttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4875609/
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28% of LGBT survivors reported they were discouraged from reporting to police due to biashttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4875609/
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43% of LGBT survivors reported they had experienced some form of discrimination when seeking helphttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6134100/
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39% of LGBT survivors reported that confidentiality concerns affected their willingness to seek serviceshttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6134100/
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6% of LGBT survivors reported that their partner used the system (courts/services) to further abusehttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6134100/
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34% of LGBT survivors reported they delayed seeking help for a month or longer after the abuse startedhttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6134100/
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23% of lesbian survivors reported that help-seeking was complicated by lack of recognition of same-sex partner violencehttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6134100/
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18% of LGBT survivors reported being turned away from serviceshttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4875609/
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12% of LGBT survivors reported being asked inappropriate questions about their orientation when seeking helphttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6134100/
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9% of LGBT survivors reported that shelter rules created barriers to staying safehttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6134100/
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53% of survivors reported they needed legal assistance but did not receive it (U.S. survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4132563/
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37% of survivors reported needing transportation to attend services, but it was not availablehttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4132563/
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24% of survivors reported needing childcare to access serviceshttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4132563/
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8% of survivors reported needing interpreter services but did not receive themhttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4132563/
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16% of LGBT survivors reported that noninclusive intake forms made them avoid serviceshttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6134100/
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19% of lesbian survivors reported that they did not access IPV-specific medical care due to provider biashttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6197736/
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11% of lesbian survivors reported not receiving appropriate referrals from clinicianshttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6197736/
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28% of lesbian survivors reported inadequate safety planning supporthttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6197736/
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14% of lesbian survivors reported fear of discrimination prevented accessing crisis hotlineshttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6197736/
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20% of LGBT adults reported being treated unfairly when seeking healthcare (U.S. estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6197736/
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18% of LGBT adults reported avoiding healthcare due to fear of discrimination (U.S. estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6197736/
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33% of survivors reported police did not take their complaints seriously (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4875609/
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25% of lesbian survivors reported that law enforcement lacked training to handle same-sex IPVhttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4875609/
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12% of lesbian survivors reported that family or community stigma prevented reporting (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6197736/
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10% of lesbian survivors reported fear of losing custody of children due to IPV reporting barriers (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6197736/
Interpretation
Access And Barriers Interpretation
Across these statistics, nearly half of LGBT and lesbian survivors faced serious barriers to getting help, with 43% reporting discrimination and 39% saying confidentiality concerns affected their willingness to seek services.
05 · Category
Health And Economic Impact10 stats
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31% of IPV survivors reported PTSD symptoms (meta-analysis estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3716476/
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14% of IPV survivors reported substance misuse problems after abuse (meta-analysis estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3716476/
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35% of IPV survivors reported depression symptomshttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3716476/
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26% of IPV survivors reported anxiety symptomshttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3716476/
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23% of IPV survivors reported injuries requiring medical care (study estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3716476/
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16% of IPV survivors reported chronic pain after abuse (study estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3716476/
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11% of IPV survivors reported gastrointestinal symptoms related to stress (study estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3716476/
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31% of lesbian and bisexual women reported that abuse affected their mental health (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4994645/
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17% of lesbian and bisexual women reported that abuse affected employment or education (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4994645/
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9% of lesbian and bisexual women reported experiencing homelessness related to IPV (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4994645/
Interpretation
Health And Economic Impact Interpretation
Across these estimates, mental health impacts are especially prominent with 31% reporting PTSD symptoms and 35% depression symptoms among IPV survivors, while physical and related health consequences also appear though less frequently, such as 23% reporting injuries needing medical care and 16% chronic pain.
06 · Category
Economic Impact14 stats
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$1.5 trillion estimated global economic cost of IPV per year (WHO estimate, model-based)https://apps.who.int/iris/bitstream/handle/10665/349794/9789240029940-eng.pdf
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US$5,000average annual out-of-pocket costs for IPV-related health services (study estimate)https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamanetworkopen/fullarticle/2789662
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US$1,000average productivity loss per worker affected by IPV (study estimate)https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamanetworkopen/fullarticle/2789662
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30% of IPV survivors reported missing work due to abuse (U.S. survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4132563/
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19% of IPV survivors reported losing employment due to abuse (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4132563/
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13% of IPV survivors reported that abuse affected their ability to find housinghttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4132563/
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24% of IPV survivors reported financial problems related to abusehttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4132563/
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19% of IPV survivors reported that their partner used economic abuse (e.g., controlling money)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4994645/
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28% of LGBT survivors reported financial barriers prevented leaving an abusive relationship (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4875609/
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18% of LGBT survivors reported legal costs or access to legal aid as a barrierhttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4875609/
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7% of LGBT survivors reported lack of health insurance as a barrier to seeking carehttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4875609/
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22% of LGBT survivors reported not having enough money for safe housinghttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4875609/
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23% of lesbian and bisexual women reported needing economic support services after IPV (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4994645/
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18% of lesbian and bisexual women reported needing legal assistance after IPV (survey estimate)https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4994645/
Interpretation
Economic Impact Interpretation
Across these estimates, the economic fallout is so severe that women experiencing IPV face about US$5,000 in out-of-pocket healthcare costs and up to 30% report missing work due to abuse, while among LGBT survivors as many as 28% cite financial barriers as the reason they cannot leave.
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Sources & references
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