Key Takeaways
- 11.4% of adults age 50–64 were divorced in the United States (2017 data for this age group).
- 27% of divorcees in the U.S. were aged 50 and over in 2017 (share by age of divorce decrees/people divorcing).
- In a U.S. survey, 37% of adults 50+ who were divorced said the divorce ended a “long-term relationship” (survey-based share).
- A 2018 peer-reviewed study reported that dissatisfaction and communication problems were among the strongest predictors of divorce among midlife and older couples (predictor effect sizes in study).
- A study using U.S. data found that remarriage prospects affect divorce timing; the paper reported a measurable association between age and divorce hazard rates (age-gradient).
- The average cost of a U.S. divorce can exceed $15,000 for many households; a 2019 report estimated median attorney fees at around $3,500–$4,000, with total costs varying widely (reported cost components).
- A 2021 ABA/market analysis found that median attorney billing rates for family law attorneys were in the range of ~$250–$350 per hour depending on region (reported market rate range).
- A 2016 peer-reviewed study estimated that divorce costs include not only legal expenses but also opportunity costs; it quantified average material costs as a share of household resources (reported percentages).
- A 2020 peer-reviewed paper found that divorce is associated with a statistically significant decline in household wealth; it reported median wealth change in the analyzed groups (amount).
- A 2021 study using U.S. panel data estimated that divorce increases the probability of food insecurity; it reported percentage point increase (effect size).
- A 2017 study found a measurable reduction in retirement savings after divorce; it reported a percentage decline in defined contribution balances (reported).
- A 2016 meta-analysis found that divorce/separation is associated with worse mental health outcomes; it reported a pooled effect size (standardized mean difference).
- A 2019 study reported higher odds of depression among divorced older adults; it quantified adjusted odds ratios (OR) in the dataset.
- A 2021 cohort study found that divorced individuals had higher all-cause mortality than married counterparts; it reported hazard ratios by marital status.
- U.S. mediation usage increased; a 2017 survey quantified mediation participation rates among divorcing couples (percentage).
Gray divorce is rising and can harm finances and health, especially for adults 50 and older.
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