American divorce is down from the last decade, with the national divorce rate settling at 2.3 per 1,000 people in 2022 after 2.5 per 1,000 in 2021, yet the reasons behind those filings remain remarkably consistent. Infidelity, money fights, communication breakdown, and mental health struggles all show up in the same pattern, from infidelity being known in 55% of cases to communication issues driving 65% of divorces. This post connects the biggest causes to what happens afterward, including the ripple effects on children and the financial realities many families face.
Key Takeaways
- Infidelity causes 20-40% of divorces, per surveys of 2021 divorcees
- Lack of commitment cited by 75% of individuals in 2021 divorce studies
- Arguments over money lead to 22% of divorces
- Children of divorce are 50% more likely to drop out of high school
- 40-50% of children of divorce will divorce as adults
- Divorced children have 2x higher rates of teen pregnancy
- White Americans have a divorce rate of 3.0 per 1,000 population in 2021
- Black Americans experience the highest divorce rate at 5.8 per 1,000 in 2021
- Hispanic divorce rate is 2.9 per 1,000 population in 2021
- Divorced women lose 45% of pre-divorce living standard on average
- Divorced men experience 21% drop in living standard post-divorce
- Alimony awarded in only 10% of divorces, averaging $5,000/year
- In 2021, the U.S. divorce rate was 2.5 per 1,000 total population, down from 3.6 in 2010
- The crude divorce rate in the United States dropped to 2.3 per 1,000 people in 2022 from 2.5 in 2021, reflecting a continued decline
- Between 2008 and 2021, the U.S. divorce rate decreased by 30%, from 3.6 to 2.5 per 1,000 population
Money fights, infidelity, and communication breakdowns drive many US divorces, which have steadily declined.
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Causes25 stats
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Infidelity causes 20-40% of divorces, per surveys of 2021 divorcees
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Lack of commitment cited by 75% of individuals in 2021 divorce studies
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Arguments over money lead to 22% of divorces
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Substance abuse contributes to 15% of U.S. divorces annually
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Domestic violence is a factor in 24% of divorces filed by women
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Incompatibility cited in 31% of divorces, per 2021 surveys
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Extramarital affairs account for 55% of divorces where infidelity is known
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Communication breakdown leads to 65% of divorces
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Weight gain post-marriage contributes to 25% of divorces, per studies
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Unrealistic expectations cause 50% of divorces in millennials
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Addiction (drugs/alcohol) in 34% of divorces involving children
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Financial infidelity (hiding money) in 30% of divorces
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Social media use correlates with 33% higher divorce risk
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Lack of intimacy/sex issues in 15% of divorces
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Mental health issues (depression/anxiety) factor in 20% of cases
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Child-related conflicts cause 12% of divorces
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Religious differences contribute to 10% of interfaith marriage divorces
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Workaholism leads to 10% of executive divorces
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Pornography addiction linked to 56% of divorce cases in therapy
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Early marriage (under 20) has 48% divorce rate due to immaturity
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Premarital cohabitation increases divorce risk by 15%
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Physical abuse in 23.5% of female-initiated divorces
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Growing apart cited by 59% of gray divorcees
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Job loss doubles divorce risk within 2 years
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40% of divorces involve one partner with untreated personality disorder
Interpretation
Causes Interpretation
According to this grim arithmetic, the modern American marriage appears to be a high-wire act where the most common causes of falling off are, in no particular order: failing to talk, failing to listen, failing to commit, failing to be faithful, failing to budget, failing to grow together, and, perhaps most fatally, failing to remember that you married an actual human being and not a profile picture or a lifestyle accessory.
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Children and Family Effects23 stats
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Children of divorce are 50% more likely to drop out of high school
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40-50% of children of divorce will divorce as adults
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Divorced children have 2x higher rates of teen pregnancy
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25% of children experience depression post-parental divorce
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Custodial mothers head 80% of single-parent families post-divorce
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Children in joint custody have 10% fewer behavioral problems
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Divorce increases child obesity risk by 64%
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1 in 5 children of divorce live in poverty vs 1 in 10 married parents
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Adult children of divorce report 33% lower life satisfaction
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Divorce linked to 20% higher suicide attempt rates in adolescents
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37% of children lose contact with non-custodial parent within 1 year
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Stepfamilies post-divorce have 65% remarriage failure rate affecting kids
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Children of divorce score 10-15 points lower on academic tests
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Long-term: 60% of children of divorce marry before 25 vs 50% intact
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Parental divorce doubles child's risk of welfare dependency as adult
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Girls from divorced homes 2x more likely to cohabit pre-marriage
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Boys from divorced families 35% more likely to become absent fathers
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Therapy reduces child adjustment issues by 30% post-divorce
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70% of prisoners come from broken homes/divorces
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Divorce at young age (<6) leads to 3x attachment disorder risk
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Shared parenting reduces child stress hormones by 25%
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Children witness 85% of parental conflicts pre-divorce
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Post-divorce mobility: 40% of children move 3+ times in 5 years
Interpretation
Children and Family Effects Interpretation
The sobering symphony of divorce statistics plays a haunting tune: while the initial conflict may end, its crescendo echoes for decades in the lives of children, revealing a cycle where the broken home too often becomes a blueprint, not a cautionary tale.
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Demographics26 stats
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White Americans have a divorce rate of 3.0 per 1,000 population in 2021
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Black Americans experience the highest divorce rate at 5.8 per 1,000 in 2021
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Hispanic divorce rate is 2.9 per 1,000 population in 2021
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Asian Americans have the lowest divorce rate at 1.2 per 1,000 in 2021
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Women initiate 69% of divorces in heterosexual marriages, per 2021 study
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Men file for 31% of divorces, often citing emotional reasons
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Divorce rate for college-educated women is 20% vs 40% for high school or less, 2021 data
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High school dropouts have 50% divorce rate within 10 years of marriage
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Median age at divorce for women is 39.1 years in 2021, up from 36.6 in 2000
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Median age at divorce for men is 41.7 years in 2021
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14% of divorced adults are under 30, 42% aged 30-49, 44% over 50 in 2021
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Rural white women have 27% higher divorce risk than urban counterparts
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Native American divorce rate is 4.1 per 1,000, higher than average
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LGBTQ+ couples have divorce rate of 1% annually vs 2% for straight, but data limited
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Foreign-born Hispanics have 15% lower divorce rate than U.S.-born
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Evangelical Protestants divorce at 28% rate vs 24% mainline, 21% Catholic
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Atheists/agnostics have 11% divorce rate, lowest among groups
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Military personnel divorce rate is 3.1% annually vs 2.1% civilians in 2021
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Veterans post-service divorce rate spikes to 12% within first 5 years
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Low-income households (<$25k) have 38% divorce rate vs 11% for $100k+
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Blue-collar workers divorce at 44% rate vs 30% white-collar
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Southern Baptist divorce rate is 29% vs national 21%
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Women with children under 18 initiate 75% of divorces
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Black women aged 25-44 have divorce rate of 8.5 per 1,000 married, highest group
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Asian women have divorce rate of 0.8 per 1,000 married women 15+
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22% of divorced women were homemakers pre-divorce
Interpretation
Demographics Interpretation
The data paints a sobering, if predictable, portrait of American matrimony: education and income are the most reliable marital armor, a woman is statistically more likely to file for divorce than to renew her vows after 39, and while faith communities preach family values, atheists are quietly winning at the longevity game.
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Economic Impacts26 stats
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Divorced women lose 45% of pre-divorce living standard on average
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Divorced men experience 21% drop in living standard post-divorce
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Alimony awarded in only 10% of divorces, averaging $5,000/year
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Child support collected in 60% of cases, averaging $5,760/year per child
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Women’s household income drops 20-30% post-divorce, men’s rises 10-15%
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Divorce costs average $15,000in legal fees for contested cases
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25% of divorced families fall into poverty within first year
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Asset division: homes awarded to women in 70% of cases with children
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Bankruptcy rates 20% higher for recently divorced individuals
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Divorced households have 50% higher credit card debt post-divorce
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Men pay 97% of alimony, but only 4% of men receive it
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Single mothers post-divorce have median income $36,000vs $72,000 married
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Divorce leads to 30% increase in food stamp usage among families
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Retirement savings halved for women post-divorce on average
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40% of divorced women aged 50+ face poverty risk
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Legal costs for divorce average $7,000uncontested, $15,000+ contested
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Post-divorce, 37% of women return to work or increase hours
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Divorce correlates with 15% higher healthcare costs due to stress
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QDROs divide 401(k)s equally, but women lose 25% future growth
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Remarried divorced men see income recovery within 3 years, women take 5+
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Tax implications: divorced filers lose $1,500average refund
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Housing costs rise 50% for custodial parents post-divorce
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50% of gray divorces result in one spouse needing public assistance
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Divorce mediation saves 40% on costs vs litigation, averaging $6,000
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Post-divorce wage gap: women earn 82% of men's income long-term
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28% of divorced parents face foreclosure risk within 2 years
Interpretation
Economic Impacts Interpretation
The bleak arithmetic of American divorce reveals a sobering imbalance: while the courts may strive for an equitable split of assets, the real ledger shows women consistently paying a heavier price in economic security, with the system's safety nets proving, for many, to be tragically full of holes.
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Rates and Trends30 stats
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In 2021, the U.S. divorce rate was 2.5 per 1,000 total population, down from 3.6 in 2010
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The crude divorce rate in the United States dropped to 2.3 per 1,000 people in 2022 from 2.5 in 2021, reflecting a continued decline
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Between 2008 and 2021, the U.S. divorce rate decreased by 30%, from 3.6 to 2.5 per 1,000 population
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In 2019, there were 673,989 divorces and annulments granted in the 45 reporting states, equating to a rate of 2.7 per 1,000 population
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The refined divorce rate, adjusting for age and sex, was 15.1 per 1,000 married women in 2021
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From 2012 to 2021, annual divorces in the U.S. fell from 877,000 to 689,308, a 21% decline
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Nevada had the highest divorce rate in 2021 at 4.2 per 1,000 population, compared to the national average of 2.5
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The U.S. marriage-to-divorce ratio improved from 2.1 in 2008 to 2.4 in 2021, meaning 2.4 marriages per divorce
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Post-COVID, U.S. divorces dropped 13% in 2020 to 630,505 from 746,000 in 2019
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Baby Boomers (born 1946-1964) accounted for 44% of divorces in 2021 despite being 28% of the population
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Gen X (born 1965-1980) divorce rate peaked at 25 per 1,000 married in 2002, now at 15 per 1,000 in 2021
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Millennial divorce rate is 20% lower than Gen X at similar ages, at 11 per 1,000 married in 2021
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From 1990 to 2021, overall U.S. divorce rates halved from 5.2 to 2.5 per 1,000 population
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In 2021, 42% of first marriages end in divorce within 20 years, down from 50% estimated previously
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Second marriages have a 60% divorce rate within 10 years, compared to 35% for first marriages
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Third marriages divorce at 73% rate within 10 years
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U.S. divorce filings dropped 10% in 2021 to 680,000 from 2020
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Long-term trend shows U.S. divorces peaked at 1,038,000 in 1981, now at 689,000 in 2021
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No-fault divorce laws correlate with 10-15% higher divorce rates in adopting states since 1970s
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Urban areas have 15% higher divorce rates than rural at 3.0 vs 2.6 per 1,000 in 2021
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Southern states average divorce rate of 2.8 per 1,000 vs Northeast's 2.0 in 2021
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Divorce rate for women aged 45-54 was highest at 21 per 1,000 married women in 2021
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Overall U.S. divorce rate for ages 15+ fell 25% from 2010-2021
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2022 provisional data shows divorce rate stabilizing at 2.4 per 1,000 after 2021 dip
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Pandemic lockdowns led to 34% drop in divorce inquiries in March 2020
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Gray divorce (over 50) rate doubled from 1990 to 2021, from 4.9 to 10.3 per 1,000 married
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In 2021, 15 states reported divorce data, averaging 2.2 per 1,000, below national estimate
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Historical peak: 5.3 divorces per 1,000 in 1981, driven by no-fault laws
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Current projection: U.S. divorce rate to reach 2.0 per 1,000 by 2030
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25% of U.S. divorces in 2021 were among couples married less than 10 years
Interpretation
Rates and Trends Interpretation
Though the headlines shout of "gray divorces" and Nevada's quickie chapels, the sobering, steady decline of the overall American divorce rate suggests we're either getting better at picking partners or, perhaps, more terrified of the paperwork.
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