Key Takeaways
- 80% of women prefer dating men taller than themselves
- Women rate men who are 6 feet or taller as 60% more attractive on average
- Only 4% of women say height doesn't matter in dating partners
- Men prefer women 5'4" to 5'7" by 45% more messages
- 30% of men won't date women taller than them
- Men rate short women (under 5'3") highest attractiveness
- 90% of dating profiles mention height preferences
- Height filters used by 65% of Tinder users
- Men under 5'9" get 70% fewer matches
- 6'2" men have 71% higher success rate
- Short men 5'6" or less have 58% fewer dates
- Height correlates 0.45 with number of dates
Most women strongly prefer to date men significantly taller than themselves.
Female Preferences
- 80% of women prefer dating men taller than themselves
- Women rate men who are 6 feet or taller as 60% more attractive on average
- Only 4% of women say height doesn't matter in dating partners
- 48% of women would not date a man shorter than them
- Women swipe right 23% more on men over 6'0" on Tinder
- 67% of women list "tall" as a top physical preference
- Women under 5'4" prefer men at least 5'10" tall
- 75% of female OKCupid users message men taller than average
- 92% of women want men 3 inches taller minimum
- Women in surveys prefer men 8 inches taller on average
- 55% of women reject profiles under 5'9"
- Female Bumble users favor men 6'2" by 40% more likes
- 70% of women cite height as top dealbreaker
- Women 5'6"+ prefer men 6'0"+ exclusively in 62% cases
- 82% of young women (18-24) demand taller partners
- Women message 5x more to men over 6'4"
- 65% of women prefer men 10% taller than average
- Only 15% of women open to shorter men
- Women rate 6'3" men highest at 85th percentile attractiveness
- 78% of college women won't date under 5'11"
- 71% of women prefer men taller by at least 4 inches
- Female Hinge users like tall men 2.5x more
- 88% of women in Asia prefer Western tall men
- 60% of women over 30 still prioritize height
- Women swipe no on 90% of men under 5'8"
- 76% prefer men 6'+ in urban dating scenes
- 69% of women list minimum height in bios
- Women favor 6'1" men by 50% response rate boost
- 83% reject shorter dates outright
- 74% of women dream of 6'2"+ partners
Female Preferences Interpretation
Male Preferences
- Men prefer women 5'4" to 5'7" by 45% more messages
- 30% of men won't date women taller than them
- Men rate short women (under 5'3") highest attractiveness
- Average preferred female height by men is 5'5"
- 62% of men prefer petite women under 5'6"
- Men on Tinder swipe right 35% more on 5'5" women
- 25% of men open to taller women
- Men message short women 3x more
- 55% of men list max height preference
- Men 6'+ prefer women 5'4" average
- 40% of men dislike women over 5'8"
- Preferred height ratio by men is 1.09 (male/female)
- 68% of men favor women shorter by 4+ inches
- Men rate 5'3" women top in OKC data
- 52% reject taller women on apps
- Urban men prefer 5'2"-5'6" range 70%
- 45% of men under 30 want petite partners
- Men swipe 28% more on short profiles
- 59% prefer women no taller than themselves
- College men pick 5'5" ideal 65%
- 61% of Bumble men like short women more
- Men in Asia prefer average height women 55%
- 50% max height in male bios
- 6' men prefer 5'3" by 40% boost
- 57% of older men still prefer shorter
- 34% of men on apps filter taller women out
- Men favor 5'4" in dreams 72%
Male Preferences Interpretation
Online Dating Stats
- 90% of dating profiles mention height preferences
- Height filters used by 65% of Tinder users
- Men under 5'9" get 70% fewer matches
- 6' men get 2x response rates on Bumble
- 75% of bios have height requirements
- Short men mentioned negatively in 40% female bios
- Height lies common in 28% of male profiles
- Women 5'10"+ get 50% fewer likes
- Average match height diff 5 inches on OKC
- 55% of swipes influenced by stated height
- POF users with height get 30% more views
- 62% reject based on height alone on apps
- Tall men top 1% in matches
- Short women get 1.5x matches
- 80% of height mentions are minimums for men
- Hinge height prompts boost matches 25%
- 45% of urban app users height-obsessed
- Asian apps show 70% height pref
- Over 30s less height focused at 50%
- Tinder height boosts likes 60% for men
- 67% of rejections cite height mismatch
- Short men success rate 20% lower
- Tall women penalized 35% in matches
- Average online ideal man height 6'0"
Online Dating Stats Interpretation
Success and Matching Rates
- 6'2" men have 71% higher success rate
- Short men 5'6" or less have 58% fewer dates
- Height correlates 0.45 with number of dates
Success and Matching Rates Interpretation
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