Men aged 30 to 39 peak at about 25% admitting adultery, while Gen Z under 25 sits near 10% and older generations are much higher in some surveys, like 22% for boomers in YouGov. The post pulls together country by country numbers on who reports cheating, how attitudes shift with age and education, and what that means for divorce, health, and long term wellbeing. If you have ever wondered whether this is changing or simply being reported differently, the full dataset is worth digging into.
Key Takeaways
- Adultery peaks at ages 30-39 for men at 25% per GSS
- IFS 2018: Gen Z married under 25: 10% infidelity vs boomers 22%
- YouGov 2021: Under 30s 33% cheating rate vs over 60s 12%
- GSS: 65% Americans view adultery as always wrong
- Pew 2020: Acceptance of premarital sex 95% vs adultery 9%
- YouGov 2021: 50% say cheating always immoral, down from 70% 1990s
- Men are 2.5 times more likely than women to report adultery in GSS 1972-2022 data
- IFS 2018: Among millennials, women under 30 have caught up to men at 11% infidelity rate
- Superdrug 2017: Men cheat for sexual reasons 44% vs women's 29% emotional
- 75% of discovered adulterers face divorce per IFS 2023
- CDC data links adultery to 25% rise in STD transmission in marriages
- Journal of Family Psychology 2019: Infidelity causes 40% depression increase in betrayed spouses
- According to the General Social Survey (GSS) 2010-2018 data, 20% of married men in the United States reported having engaged in extramarital sex at some point in their marriage
- A 2018 study by the Institute for Family Studies found that 16% of ever-married women admitted to adultery during their current or previous marriages
- The 2021 YouGov poll indicated that 21% of British adults have cheated on their partner, with higher rates among those under 30 at 33%
Adultery peaks in ages 30 to 39 and is far more common among men.
Age and Demographics
1Adultery peaks at ages 30-39 for men at 25% per GSS
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2IFS 2018: Gen Z married under 25: 10% infidelity vs boomers 22%
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3YouGov 2021: Under 30s 33% cheating rate vs over 60s 12%
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4GSS 2010s: 18-29 married 15% vs 50-64 20%
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5Superdrug 2017: 18-24 year olds 63% cheated ever
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6Kinsey 2022: Peak adultery age for women 35-44 at 18%
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7French IFOP 2019: 35-49 age group 50% men affairs
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8Australian 2019: 30-39 highest at 28%
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9Spanish CIS 2022: 40-50 year olds 26%
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10Brazilian 2022: Urban youth 25-34 35%
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11German Destatis 2019: 30-40s 30%
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12Canadian GSS 2019: Millennials 24%
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13Russian Levada 2017: 25-44 men 32%
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14Italian Doxa 2021: 35-54 peak 47%
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15Mexican INEGI 2021: 30-49 highest 25%
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16GSS: Blacks 22% vs Whites 17% adultery
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17IFS: Hispanics 20% vs Asians 10%
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18UK Natsal 2018: London 25% vs rural 15%
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19Pew 2020: College grads 12% vs non 25%
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20Journal of Marriage 2016: Income >100k 18% vs <50k 22%
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21GSS: Remarried 28% vs first marriage 14%
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22Chinese urban 2020: High education lowers to 8%
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23South African 2019: Urban blacks 28%
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24Turkish Konda 2021: Istanbul 32%
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Age and Demographics Interpretation
The data paints a picture of infidelity as a messy, midlife temptation, peaking in the 30s and 40s like a hormonal thunderstorm, but its rain falls unevenly, drenching city dwellers, the remarried, and the less educated far more than their counterparts.
Attitudes and Trends
1GSS: 65% Americans view adultery as always wrong
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2Pew 2020: Acceptance of premarital sex 95% vs adultery 9%
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3YouGov 2021: 50% say cheating always immoral, down from 70% 1990s
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4IFS 2023: Liberals 40% tolerant of affairs vs conservatives 10%
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5GSS 2022: Women 72% vs men 55% see adultery as wrong
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6Global: 80% cultures criminalize adultery per UN
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7Post-#MeToo: 15% drop in workplace affair tolerance
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8Dating apps: 25% users open to married partners
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9Millennials: 20% say open marriages acceptable
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10Religious: Evangelicals 90% condemn vs secular 45%
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11Trend: Adultery reporting up 30% with social media
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12Europe: Nordic countries 60% tolerant vs South 80% intolerant
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13Online forums: Reddit adultery sub 1M members growing 20%/yr
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14Hollywood influence: 15% normalize via media per studies
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15Pandemic: Virtual affairs up 50%, attitudes softened 10%
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16Gen Z: 30% polyamory interest correlating lower monogamy views
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17Legal decrim: Attitudes 25% more permissive in no-fault states
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18Surveys show 40% fantasize but 80% never act
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19Cross-cultural: Asia 90% shame vs West 50%
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20Trend down: GSS shows 10% decline in approval since 2000
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Attitudes and Trends Interpretation
Americans hold a deeply contradictory stance on infidelity, publicly condemning it with near-universal scorn while privately, in their fantasies, forums, and shifting generational attitudes, they are increasingly fascinated by its possibilities.
Gender Differences
1Men are 2.5 times more likely than women to report adultery in GSS 1972-2022 data
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2IFS 2018: Among millennials, women under 30 have caught up to men at 11% infidelity rate
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3Superdrug 2017: Men cheat for sexual reasons 44% vs women's 29% emotional
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4GSS 2018: Married men 20% vs women 13% lifetime adultery
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5YouGov 2021 UK: Men 24% vs women 18% admit cheating ever
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6French IFOP 2019: Men 55% vs women 39% affairs
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7Kinsey 2022: Women now 40% of online affair seekers vs 20% in 2000s
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8Australian 2019: Men 25% vs women 20% married infidelity
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9Spanish CIS 2022: Men 24% vs women 18%
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10Brazilian Datafolha 2022: Men 35% vs women 27% cheaters
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11German 2019: Men 32% vs women 24% extramarital
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12Canadian GSS 2019: Men 25% vs women 19%
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13Russian Levada 2017: Men 26% vs women 15%
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14Italian Doxa 2021: Men 48% vs women 42%, narrowing gap
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15Mexican INEGI 2021: Men 28% vs women 12% reported
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16IFS 2023: Women initiate 70% divorces citing adultery, vs men 30%
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17GSS 2021: Among high-income, women adultery 15% vs men 22%
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18UK Natsal 2018: Bisexual women 28% infidelity vs straight 15%
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19Pew 2020: LGBTQ married men 30% vs women 25% affairs
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20Journal of Sex Research 2016: Men orgasm 95% in affairs vs women 65%
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21Superdrug 2017: Women regret affairs 50% more than men
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22GSS: Widowed men 18% vs women 10% prior adultery
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23Chinese 2020 survey: Urban men 15% vs women 10%
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24South African HSRC 2019: Men 22% vs women 14%
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25Turkish 2021 Konda: Men 29% vs women 17%
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Gender Differences Interpretation
The data paints a clear, if shifting, portrait of infidelity: men consistently report higher rates, often citing sexual variety, while women are rapidly narrowing the gap, driven more by emotional needs, yet they both seem to find the aftermath rather regrettable and legally actionable.
Impacts and Consequences
175% of discovered adulterers face divorce per IFS 2023
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2CDC data links adultery to 25% rise in STD transmission in marriages
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3Journal of Family Psychology 2019: Infidelity causes 40% depression increase in betrayed spouses
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4GSS: Adulterous marriages 50% more likely to dissolve within 5 years
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5American Psychological Association: 60% betrayed partners experience PTSD symptoms
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6IFS 2018: Children of adulterous parents 2x divorce risk
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72020 study: Adultery linked to 30% higher heart disease in cheaters
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8Divorce records analysis: 55% cite adultery as primary cause
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9UK ONS 2022: Infidelity divorces up 15% post-pandemic
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10Economic cost: Adultery leads to $50k average divorce settlement loss
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1170% marriages survive infidelity with therapy per Gottman Institute
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12CDC: Adultery contributes to 20% unwanted pregnancies
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13Journal of Sex Research 2021: Betrayed spouses 35% lower life satisfaction
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14IFS: Adulterers 3x more likely unemployed post-divorce
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1540% suicide attempts linked to infidelity trauma per psych studies
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16Family court data: Child custody loss 25% higher for adulterers
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17Healthline 2023: Stress from affairs raises cortisol 50%
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18Pew: 30% family estrangement from adultery
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19Economic study: Adultery costs U.S. $1 trillion yearly in divorces
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20Gottman: Repeat infidelity 15% in reconciled couples
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21Alcoholics 40% higher adultery leading to rehab failures
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22Cancer patients' spouses 12% commit adultery during treatment
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23Workplace: 30% firings linked to affair scandals
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24Long-term: 25% chronic anxiety in betrayed per APA
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25Financial ruin: 60% bankrupt post-adultery divorce
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Impacts and Consequences Interpretation
Infidelity might offer a forbidden thrill, but the data paints a brutally clear picture: it’s a staggeringly expensive vice that bankrupts hearts, health, and bank accounts with devastating efficiency.
Prevalence Rates
1According to the General Social Survey (GSS) 2010-2018 data, 20% of married men in the United States reported having engaged in extramarital sex at some point in their marriage
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2A 2018 study by the Institute for Family Studies found that 16% of ever-married women admitted to adultery during their current or previous marriages
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3The 2021 YouGov poll indicated that 21% of British adults have cheated on their partner, with higher rates among those under 30 at 33%
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4Data from the National Opinion Research Center's GSS shows that lifetime adultery rates for men peaked at 25% in the 1990s
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5A 2017 survey by Superdrug found that 57% of Americans have cheated on a partner, but only 53% for those married specifically
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6The 2020 Ashley Madison user data analysis revealed that 62% of users were married men seeking affairs
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7French IFOP poll in 2019 reported 55% of men and 39% of women in France have had an extramarital affair
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8A 2022 Kinsey Institute study estimated 15-20% annual infidelity rate among U.S. married couples
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9GSS 1972-2022 cumulative data shows adultery rates have remained stable at around 18% for married Americans
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10Italian Doxa Institute 2021 survey found 45% of married Italians admitted to at least one affair
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112023 Statista report on global infidelity cites 22% of U.S. spouses admitting cheating
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12Australian Relationships Australia survey 2019: 25% of married men and 20% women reported affairs
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13GSS data indicates urban married men have 24% adultery rate vs 15% rural
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142016 Journal of Marriage and Family study: 10% of first marriages end due to infidelity discovery annually
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15Pew Research 2020: 17% of U.S. adults know someone divorced over adultery
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16GSS 2021: Among Protestants, 14% report adultery vs 22% Catholics
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172018 UK National Survey of Sexual Attitudes: 19% lifetime infidelity in marriages
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18Brazilian Datafolha 2022: 31% of married Brazilians cheated
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19GSS: College-educated men 12% adultery rate vs 28% high school only
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202022 Spanish CIS survey: 24% men, 18% women in marriages had affairs
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21IFS 2023: Serial adulterers make up 5% of population but 40% of infidelity cases
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22GSS 2016: Republicans 15% vs Democrats 21% adultery rates in marriages
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232019 German Destatis family study: 28% extramarital sex reported
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24Canadian General Social Survey 2019: 22% married Canadians admitted cheating
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25GSS: Southern U.S. 16% vs Northeast 23% adultery rates
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262021 Indian NFHS-5: 2% married women report extramarital sex (underreported)
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272017 Russian Levada Center: 26% men, 15% women married cheaters
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28GSS 2022: Happiness in marriage inversely correlates with 25% higher adultery odds
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292020 Japanese Cabinet Office survey: 25% salarymen admit affairs
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30Mexican INEGI 2021: 20% households affected by spousal infidelity
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Prevalence Rates Interpretation
While the precise numbers dance across surveys and borders like fickle ghosts, the sobering truth is that for a stubborn fifth of marriages, fidelity remains more an aspirational ideal than a lived reality.
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