Man Leaving During Pregnancy Statistics

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Man Leaving During Pregnancy Statistics

When a man leaves during pregnancy, the fallout shows up fast and across years, from 1.8 times higher odds of substance use disorder within 2 years to 20% of mothers developing PTSD related to the exit. This page connects how abandonment reshapes mental health, stability, and early childhood outcomes, including a 1.6 times higher risk of infant mortality for babies left in utero and only 10% of fathers ever establishing legal paternity.

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Key Statistics

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80% of mothers who were abandoned during pregnancy report difficulty bonding with the infant

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Children whose father abandoned during pregnancy have 1.5 times odds of depression by age 18

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Mothers abandoned during pregnancy have 1.8 times odds of substance use disorder within 2 years

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65% of these mothers report social isolation after the father leaves

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10% of fathers who abandoned during pregnancy attempt suicide within the first year after birth

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55% of mothers whose partner left during pregnancy have trust issues in future relationships

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20% of these mothers develop post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) related to the exit

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30% of mothers experience suicidal ideation during pregnancy after partner leaves

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24% of teenage fathers cease contact with the mother by the time of birth

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8% of fathers in military service separate from the mother during pregnancy

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Only 10% of fathers who leave during pregnancy ever establish legal paternity

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55% of mothers whose partners left during pregnancy report food insecurity at 12 months postpartum

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40% of these mothers have housing insecurity (eviction or doubling up) within 6 months of birth

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20% of mothers seek legal termination of parental rights when father left during pregnancy

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The average child support award when father left during pregnancy is $200/month

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33% of fathers who leave have experienced parental divorce themselves

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Children with father abandonment in utero have 1.6 times odds of infant mortality

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20% of children whose father left during pregnancy are placed in foster care by age 5

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15% of children whose father left during pregnancy are diagnosed with asthma by age 5

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10% of children whose father left during pregnancy are born with low birth weight (<2500g)

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1 in 4 children whose father left during pregnancy have behavioral problems by kindergarten

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Children of fathers who abandoned during pregnancy have a 40% higher risk of externalizing behavior disorder by age 5

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Infants whose father left during pregnancy have a 50% higher risk of being small for gestational age

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Mothers abandoned during pregnancy are 4 times more likely to have child in non-parental care by age 2

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Children whose father left during pregnancy have a 25% higher likelihood of being held back in school by age 8

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Infants whose father left during pregnancy have a 20% higher risk of NICU admission

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62% of mothers whose partners left during pregnancy receive less than $100 per month in child support

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75% of women whose partner left during pregnancy report a drop in household income of more than 50%

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50% of mothers whose partner left during pregnancy rely on public assistance programs like SNAP or WIC

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33% of men who leave during pregnancy were not married to the mother

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25% of fathers who leave during pregnancy have a parent who also abandoned them as a child

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35% of fathers who leave during pregnancy had a substance use disorder in the past year

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12% of men who leave during pregnancy have a diagnosed personality disorder

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30% of mothers abandoned during pregnancy report that the father threatened to leave before the pregnancy

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70% of mothers whose partner left during pregnancy report that the father had a history of infidelity

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60% of mothers abandoned during pregnancy report feeling anger toward the father lasting more than 2 years

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20% of women whose partners left during pregnancy experience panic attacks during the postpartum period

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25% of women whose partners left during pregnancy develop an eating disorder within 2 years

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15% of mothers whose partner left during pregnancy report previous miscarriages

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80% of mothers abandoned during pregnancy report feeling stigmatized by family members

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50% of mothers abandoned during pregnancy report that the father had no contact with the child by age 1

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40% of mothers whose partner left during pregnancy report receiving no emotional support from anyone

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32% of cohabiting unmarried fathers end the relationship by the child's first birthday

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Only 15% of fathers who deserted during pregnancy maintain contact by age 3

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Fathers who cease contact during pregnancy are 70% more likely to have a history of incarceration

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55% of women whose partner left during pregnancy report the father had alcohol abuse problems

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Average age of fathers who leave during pregnancy is 26 years old

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12% of mothers whose partner left during pregnancy report the father later attempted recontact after two years

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Mothers whose partners left during pregnancy are 2.3 times more likely to experience severe postpartum depression

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Maternal hospitalization for mental health within first year is 1.8 times higher if partner left during pregnancy

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Odds of maternal smoking during pregnancy double when the father leaves

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80% of mothers whose partner left during pregnancy report the exit was unexpected

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30% of mothers abandoned during pregnancy develop chronic depression beyond 5 years

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Risk of maternal obesity at 1 year postpartum is 1.5 times higher if partner left during pregnancy

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45% of fathers who leave during pregnancy report a history of childhood maltreatment

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60% of fathers who leave during pregnancy have not completed high school

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22% of fathers who leave during pregnancy are younger than 20

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40% of mothers whose partner left during pregnancy report the father had a previous child

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70% of mothers abandoned during pregnancy are not married to the father at time of pregnancy

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35% of fathers who leave during pregnancy are employed in low-wage jobs without paid parental leave

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Women whose partners left during pregnancy are 3 times more likely to have a preterm birth

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25% of mothers whose partner left during pregnancy lack health insurance at delivery

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Only 5% of mothers abandoned during pregnancy receive financial support by child's first birthday

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Intimate partner violence is 25% higher for mothers whose partner left during pregnancy vs other separations

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When a man leaves during pregnancy, the fallout can hit fast and last far beyond the breakup. For example, children whose father abandoned during pregnancy face 1.6 times the odds of infant mortality, while mothers report that bonding difficulties affect 80% of those abandoned. Even the “after birth” timeline looks different, with 10% of fathers who abandon during pregnancy attempting suicide within the first year, and 55% of mothers experiencing social isolation.

Key Takeaways

  • 80% of mothers who were abandoned during pregnancy report difficulty bonding with the infant
  • Children whose father abandoned during pregnancy have 1.5 times odds of depression by age 18
  • Mothers abandoned during pregnancy have 1.8 times odds of substance use disorder within 2 years
  • 24% of teenage fathers cease contact with the mother by the time of birth
  • 8% of fathers in military service separate from the mother during pregnancy
  • Only 10% of fathers who leave during pregnancy ever establish legal paternity
  • 55% of mothers whose partners left during pregnancy report food insecurity at 12 months postpartum
  • 40% of these mothers have housing insecurity (eviction or doubling up) within 6 months of birth
  • 33% of fathers who leave have experienced parental divorce themselves
  • Children with father abandonment in utero have 1.6 times odds of infant mortality
  • 20% of children whose father left during pregnancy are placed in foster care by age 5
  • 15% of children whose father left during pregnancy are diagnosed with asthma by age 5
  • 62% of mothers whose partners left during pregnancy receive less than $100 per month in child support
  • 75% of women whose partner left during pregnancy report a drop in household income of more than 50%
  • 50% of mothers whose partner left during pregnancy rely on public assistance programs like SNAP or WIC

Partner abandonment during pregnancy strongly increases mothers and children’s mental health, economic strain, and health risks.

Psychological Impact

180% of mothers who were abandoned during pregnancy report difficulty bonding with the infant[1]
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2Children whose father abandoned during pregnancy have 1.5 times odds of depression by age 18[2]
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3Mothers abandoned during pregnancy have 1.8 times odds of substance use disorder within 2 years[3]
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465% of these mothers report social isolation after the father leaves[4]
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510% of fathers who abandoned during pregnancy attempt suicide within the first year after birth[5]
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655% of mothers whose partner left during pregnancy have trust issues in future relationships[6]
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720% of these mothers develop post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) related to the exit[7]
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830% of mothers experience suicidal ideation during pregnancy after partner leaves[8]
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Abandonment Rates

124% of teenage fathers cease contact with the mother by the time of birth[9]
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28% of fathers in military service separate from the mother during pregnancy[10]
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Abandonment Rates Interpretation

Abandonment rates are three times higher among teenage fathers, with nearly a quarter cutting off contact by birth, compared

Demographic Factors

133% of fathers who leave have experienced parental divorce themselves[16]
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Demographic Factors Interpretation

Nearly a third of fathers who leave during pregnancy have themselves experienced parental divorce, revealing a clear demographic pattern that links past family instability to future abandonment.

Child Outcomes

1Children with father abandonment in utero have 1.6 times odds of infant mortality[17]
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220% of children whose father left during pregnancy are placed in foster care by age 5[18]
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315% of children whose father left during pregnancy are diagnosed with asthma by age 5[19]
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410% of children whose father left during pregnancy are born with low birth weight (<2500g)[20]
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51 in 4 children whose father left during pregnancy have behavioral problems by kindergarten[21]
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6Children of fathers who abandoned during pregnancy have a 40% higher risk of externalizing behavior disorder by age 5[22]
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7Infants whose father left during pregnancy have a 50% higher risk of being small for gestational age[23]
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8Mothers abandoned during pregnancy are 4 times more likely to have child in non-parental care by age 2[24]
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9Children whose father left during pregnancy have a 25% higher likelihood of being held back in school by age 8[25]
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10Infants whose father left during pregnancy have a 20% higher risk of NICU admission[26]
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Child Outcomes Interpretation

Children whose fathers abandoned them during pregnancy face a 20 percent chance of being placed in foster care by age 5

Financial Impact

162% of mothers whose partners left during pregnancy receive less than $100 per month in child support[27]
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275% of women whose partner left during pregnancy report a drop in household income of more than 50%[28]
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350% of mothers whose partner left during pregnancy rely on public assistance programs like SNAP or WIC[29]
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Relationship Dynamics

133% of men who leave during pregnancy were not married to the mother[30]
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225% of fathers who leave during pregnancy have a parent who also abandoned them as a child[31]
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335% of fathers who leave during pregnancy had a substance use disorder in the past year[32]
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412% of men who leave during pregnancy have a diagnosed personality disorder[33]
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530% of mothers abandoned during pregnancy report that the father threatened to leave before the pregnancy[34]
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670% of mothers whose partner left during pregnancy report that the father had a history of infidelity[35]
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Relationship Dynamics Interpretation

Among mothers whose partner left during pregnancy, a striking 70 percent reported a history of infidelity, revealing that deep seated trust issues often foreshadow abandonment in these relationships.

Mental Health Effects

160% of mothers abandoned during pregnancy report feeling anger toward the father lasting more than 2 years[36]
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220% of women whose partners left during pregnancy experience panic attacks during the postpartum period[37]
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325% of women whose partners left during pregnancy develop an eating disorder within 2 years[38]
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415% of mothers whose partner left during pregnancy report previous miscarriages[39]
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Mental Health Effects Interpretation

Nearly two thirds of mothers abandoned during pregnancy report feeling anger toward the father for over two years, highlighting a deep and enduring mental health impact that can persist long after the pregnancy ends.

Social Support Networks

180% of mothers abandoned during pregnancy report feeling stigmatized by family members[40]
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250% of mothers abandoned during pregnancy report that the father had no contact with the child by age 1[41]
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340% of mothers whose partner left during pregnancy report receiving no emotional support from anyone[42]
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Social Support Networks Interpretation

A staggering 40 percent of mothers whose partner left during pregnancy received no emotional support from anyone, exposing a critical failure in their social support networks.

Paternal Behavior

132% of cohabiting unmarried fathers end the relationship by the child's first birthday[43]
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2Only 15% of fathers who deserted during pregnancy maintain contact by age 3[44]
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3Fathers who cease contact during pregnancy are 70% more likely to have a history of incarceration[45]
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455% of women whose partner left during pregnancy report the father had alcohol abuse problems[46]
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5Average age of fathers who leave during pregnancy is 26 years old[47]
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612% of mothers whose partner left during pregnancy report the father later attempted recontact after two years[48]
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Maternal Impact

1Mothers whose partners left during pregnancy are 2.3 times more likely to experience severe postpartum depression[49]
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2Maternal hospitalization for mental health within first year is 1.8 times higher if partner left during pregnancy[50]
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3Odds of maternal smoking during pregnancy double when the father leaves[51]
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480% of mothers whose partner left during pregnancy report the exit was unexpected[52]
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530% of mothers abandoned during pregnancy develop chronic depression beyond 5 years[53]
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6Risk of maternal obesity at 1 year postpartum is 1.5 times higher if partner left during pregnancy[54]
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Maternal Impact Interpretation

The maternal impact of a partner leaving during pregnancy is devastating and lasting, with mothers facing a 2.3 times higher risk of severe postpartum depression and many experiencing unexpected abandonment that doubles their likelihood of smoking and leads to chronic mental health struggles for years.

Demographics

145% of fathers who leave during pregnancy report a history of childhood maltreatment[55]
Single source
260% of fathers who leave during pregnancy have not completed high school[56]
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322% of fathers who leave during pregnancy are younger than 20[57]
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440% of mothers whose partner left during pregnancy report the father had a previous child[58]
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570% of mothers abandoned during pregnancy are not married to the father at time of pregnancy[59]
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635% of fathers who leave during pregnancy are employed in low-wage jobs without paid parental leave[60]
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Demographics Interpretation

The demographic profile of fathers who leave during pregnancy is starkly defined by a lack of educational attainment, with 60% not having completed high school.

Socioeconomic Effects

1Women whose partners left during pregnancy are 3 times more likely to have a preterm birth[61]
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225% of mothers whose partner left during pregnancy lack health insurance at delivery[62]
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3Only 5% of mothers abandoned during pregnancy receive financial support by child's first birthday[63]
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4Intimate partner violence is 25% higher for mothers whose partner left during pregnancy vs other separations[64]
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