GITNUXREPORT 2025

Dating Abuse Statistics

Teen dating abuse affects millions, threatening health, safety, and future well-being.

Jannik Lindner

Jannik Linder

Co-Founder of Gitnux, specialized in content and tech since 2016.

First published: April 29, 2025

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Key Statistics

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The majority of teen dating violence cases involve controlling behaviors such as isolating the victim from friends and family

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51% of teens report experiencing controlling behaviors, such as jealousy and monitoring their activities, in their dating relationships

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The presence of controlling behaviors increases the likelihood of physical violence in teenage relationships

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60% of teens involved in abusive relationships experience digital stalking, such as constant texting or social media monitoring

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Children exposed to domestic violence are more likely to enter into abusive dating relationships later in life

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Teen girls who experience dating violence are twice as likely to have eating disorders

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Teen victims of dating violence are more likely to experience mental health issues, including depression and anxiety

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Over 50% of teens involved in abusive relationships report feeling trapped or unable to leave

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Teens who experience dating violence are at higher risk for substance abuse and alcohol misuse

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Adolescents exposed to dating violence are more likely to have academic difficulties

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The risk of homicide in teen dating violence cases is elevated when weapons are involved

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Teen girls who experience dating violence are three times more likely to attempt suicide

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Nearly 1 in 6 teens involved in dating violence have seriously considered suicide

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Teens involved in abusive relationships are more likely to skip school and have lower academic achievement

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Girls who experience dating violence are more likely to experience mental health problems such as depression and anxiety

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Teen girls who experience dating abuse are more likely to encounter academic difficulties and drop out of school

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70% of teens in abusive relationships feel unable to leave due to fear or emotional attachment

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Teens who experience dating violence are 2 to 3 times more likely to attempt suicide

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Approximately 1.5 million high school students nationwide experience dating violence each year

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33% of teenage girls report experiencing physical dating violence

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25% of teens who experience dating violence report being fearful of their partner

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Teens between the ages of 16 and 24 are at the highest risk for experiencing dating abuse

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Girls are more likely than boys to experience physical and emotional dating abuse

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87% of teens believe boyfriend or girlfriend should be respectful and nonviolent, but many experience violence anyway

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Among high school students, 1 in 10 students has been physically hurt by a partner

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Nearly 1 in 3 teens who are abused in dating relationships are also involved in substance misuse

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70% of teen dating abuse victims experience some form of emotional abuse

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20% of teen girls and 10% of teen boys report being physically hurt by a dating partner

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Emotional abuse is the most common form of dating violence among teens, with 81% of teens reporting some form of emotional abuse

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Nearly 4 in 10 teens have been asked to send sexual pictures or videos, often as part of dating violence

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25% of teens report that their dating relationship involved some form of physical violence

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14% of teens who experience dating violence report being forced into sexual activity

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In a survey, 70% of teens said they knew a friend who was being neglected or abused in their relationship

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50% of young women involved in abusive relationships have attempted to leave their partner at least once, but many feel they cannot leave

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Nearly 1 in 4 teens in abusive relationships report experiencing threats of harm

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65% of teens in abusive relationships report feeling afraid of their partner

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Nearly 1 in 5 teens have been a victim of physical, emotional, or sexual dating abuse

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Boys and girls report similar rates of emotional abuse, but girls report higher rates of sexual abuse in dating relationships

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31% of teens in abusive relationships report feeling depressed or hopeless

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14% of teen girls involved in dating abuse report experiencing physical violence

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Approximately 15% of teens experience cyber dating abuse, including harassment, threats, and social media stalking

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Nearly 25% of teens report experiencing some form of emotional or physical abuse in their dating relationships

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The most common age range for teen dating violence is 15-17 years old

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Approximately 1.2 million women and men report experiencing intimate partner violence in teen dating relationships annually

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15% of teen girls report being forced into sexual activities by their dating partner

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60% of teens do not report dating violence to anyone

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50% of young women in abusive relationships report not seeking help due to fear or shame

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55% of teens involved in dating violence do not tell anyone about their abuse, out of fear or shame

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80% of teens believe dating violence is a serious problem, but only a minority seek help afterward

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68% of teens report they do not recognize emotional abuse as harmful, indicating a lack of awareness

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69% of adolescents who experience dating violence report experiencing controlling behaviors

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15-20% of teens experience some form of cyber dating abuse, such as harassment or stalking

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Among teen dating abuse victims, 22% report experiencing sexual violence

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Teen boys and girls report emotional abuse equally, but girls experience more physical and sexual abuse

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52% of teens report experiencing controlling behaviors from their dating partner, including jealousy and possessiveness

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40% of teens identified emotional abuse as the most severe form of dating violence they experienced

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80% of young women in abusive relationships report feeling emotional manipulation, control, and isolation

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Teen boys in abusive relationships often experience control and emotional abuse similar to girls, but less physical violence

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Key Highlights

  • Approximately 1.5 million high school students nationwide experience dating violence each year
  • 33% of teenage girls report experiencing physical dating violence
  • 25% of teens who experience dating violence report being fearful of their partner
  • Teens between the ages of 16 and 24 are at the highest risk for experiencing dating abuse
  • 60% of teens do not report dating violence to anyone
  • Girls are more likely than boys to experience physical and emotional dating abuse
  • 87% of teens believe boyfriend or girlfriend should be respectful and nonviolent, but many experience violence anyway
  • Among high school students, 1 in 10 students has been physically hurt by a partner
  • Nearly 1 in 3 teens who are abused in dating relationships are also involved in substance misuse
  • 70% of teen dating abuse victims experience some form of emotional abuse
  • 20% of teen girls and 10% of teen boys report being physically hurt by a dating partner
  • Children exposed to domestic violence are more likely to enter into abusive dating relationships later in life
  • 50% of young women in abusive relationships report not seeking help due to fear or shame

Every year, millions of teenagers face the hidden scars of dating abuse, revealing alarming statistics that expose a crisis of control, fear, and violence affecting youth across the nation.

Cyber and Controlling Behaviors in Teen Relationships

  • The majority of teen dating violence cases involve controlling behaviors such as isolating the victim from friends and family
  • 51% of teens report experiencing controlling behaviors, such as jealousy and monitoring their activities, in their dating relationships
  • The presence of controlling behaviors increases the likelihood of physical violence in teenage relationships
  • 60% of teens involved in abusive relationships experience digital stalking, such as constant texting or social media monitoring

Cyber and Controlling Behaviors in Teen Relationships Interpretation

These statistics reveal that behind seemingly innocent teenage romances often lurk a concerning pattern of control—highlighting that even in young love, dominance can pave the way for violence, both physical and digital.

Impact and Consequences of Dating Violence

  • Children exposed to domestic violence are more likely to enter into abusive dating relationships later in life
  • Teen girls who experience dating violence are twice as likely to have eating disorders
  • Teen victims of dating violence are more likely to experience mental health issues, including depression and anxiety
  • Over 50% of teens involved in abusive relationships report feeling trapped or unable to leave
  • Teens who experience dating violence are at higher risk for substance abuse and alcohol misuse
  • Adolescents exposed to dating violence are more likely to have academic difficulties
  • The risk of homicide in teen dating violence cases is elevated when weapons are involved
  • Teen girls who experience dating violence are three times more likely to attempt suicide
  • Nearly 1 in 6 teens involved in dating violence have seriously considered suicide
  • Teens involved in abusive relationships are more likely to skip school and have lower academic achievement
  • Girls who experience dating violence are more likely to experience mental health problems such as depression and anxiety
  • Teen girls who experience dating abuse are more likely to encounter academic difficulties and drop out of school
  • 70% of teens in abusive relationships feel unable to leave due to fear or emotional attachment
  • Teens who experience dating violence are 2 to 3 times more likely to attempt suicide

Impact and Consequences of Dating Violence Interpretation

These harrowing statistics underscore a chilling truth: exposure to dating violence not only casts long shadows over teens' mental health, academic success, and safety but also elevates their risk of suicide and tragic violence, revealing that early emotional wounds can escalate into life-altering crises unless we act swiftly and decisively.

Prevalence and Demographics of Teen Dating Violence

  • Approximately 1.5 million high school students nationwide experience dating violence each year
  • 33% of teenage girls report experiencing physical dating violence
  • 25% of teens who experience dating violence report being fearful of their partner
  • Teens between the ages of 16 and 24 are at the highest risk for experiencing dating abuse
  • Girls are more likely than boys to experience physical and emotional dating abuse
  • 87% of teens believe boyfriend or girlfriend should be respectful and nonviolent, but many experience violence anyway
  • Among high school students, 1 in 10 students has been physically hurt by a partner
  • Nearly 1 in 3 teens who are abused in dating relationships are also involved in substance misuse
  • 70% of teen dating abuse victims experience some form of emotional abuse
  • 20% of teen girls and 10% of teen boys report being physically hurt by a dating partner
  • Emotional abuse is the most common form of dating violence among teens, with 81% of teens reporting some form of emotional abuse
  • Nearly 4 in 10 teens have been asked to send sexual pictures or videos, often as part of dating violence
  • 25% of teens report that their dating relationship involved some form of physical violence
  • 14% of teens who experience dating violence report being forced into sexual activity
  • In a survey, 70% of teens said they knew a friend who was being neglected or abused in their relationship
  • 50% of young women involved in abusive relationships have attempted to leave their partner at least once, but many feel they cannot leave
  • Nearly 1 in 4 teens in abusive relationships report experiencing threats of harm
  • 65% of teens in abusive relationships report feeling afraid of their partner
  • Nearly 1 in 5 teens have been a victim of physical, emotional, or sexual dating abuse
  • Boys and girls report similar rates of emotional abuse, but girls report higher rates of sexual abuse in dating relationships
  • 31% of teens in abusive relationships report feeling depressed or hopeless
  • 14% of teen girls involved in dating abuse report experiencing physical violence
  • Approximately 15% of teens experience cyber dating abuse, including harassment, threats, and social media stalking
  • Nearly 25% of teens report experiencing some form of emotional or physical abuse in their dating relationships
  • The most common age range for teen dating violence is 15-17 years old
  • Approximately 1.2 million women and men report experiencing intimate partner violence in teen dating relationships annually
  • 15% of teen girls report being forced into sexual activities by their dating partner

Prevalence and Demographics of Teen Dating Violence Interpretation

Despite nearly 87% of teens acknowledging that respectful, nonviolent relationships are the norm, over 1.5 million high school students endure dating violence each year, revealing that awareness has yet to translate into safety and that emotional abuse, fear, and coercion remain pervasive shadows over adolescence.

Reporting, Awareness, and Recognition of Abuse

  • 60% of teens do not report dating violence to anyone
  • 50% of young women in abusive relationships report not seeking help due to fear or shame
  • 55% of teens involved in dating violence do not tell anyone about their abuse, out of fear or shame
  • 80% of teens believe dating violence is a serious problem, but only a minority seek help afterward
  • 68% of teens report they do not recognize emotional abuse as harmful, indicating a lack of awareness

Reporting, Awareness, and Recognition of Abuse Interpretation

Despite widespread awareness of dating violence's severity, a troubling silence persists—teens often fail to report abuse due to fear, shame, or lack of recognition, highlighting a critical need for better education and open conversations.

Types and Forms of Abuse in Teen Relationships

  • 69% of adolescents who experience dating violence report experiencing controlling behaviors
  • 15-20% of teens experience some form of cyber dating abuse, such as harassment or stalking
  • Among teen dating abuse victims, 22% report experiencing sexual violence
  • Teen boys and girls report emotional abuse equally, but girls experience more physical and sexual abuse
  • 52% of teens report experiencing controlling behaviors from their dating partner, including jealousy and possessiveness
  • 40% of teens identified emotional abuse as the most severe form of dating violence they experienced
  • 80% of young women in abusive relationships report feeling emotional manipulation, control, and isolation
  • Teen boys in abusive relationships often experience control and emotional abuse similar to girls, but less physical violence

Types and Forms of Abuse in Teen Relationships Interpretation

Despite the perception that teen dating violence predominantly targets girls, the statistics reveal a troubling landscape where control, emotional manipulation, and cyber abuse afflict both genders almost equally, highlighting the urgent need for comprehensive awareness and intervention strategies that address the full spectrum of teenage relationship violence.