GITNUXREPORT 2026

Virginity Statistics

Virginity rates vary significantly by country, gender, and socioeconomic factors.

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Key Statistics

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According to the 2015-2017 National Survey of Family Growth (NSFG), 12.3% of females aged 15-19 in the US reported never having engaged in vaginal intercourse

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In the same NSFG 2015-2017, 14.3% of males aged 15-19 reported virginity regarding vaginal intercourse

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CDC data from 2011-2015 shows 44% of US females aged 15-19 were virgins

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For US males 15-19, 39% reported virginity in 2011-2015 NSFG

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A 2021 study found 58% of US high school students (grades 9-12) had never had sexual intercourse

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Among US females 20-24, virginity rate was 12.3% per NSFG 2015-2017

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Males 20-24 in US had 14.3% virginity rate, NSFG 2015-2017

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In Japan, 25.8% of unmarried males aged 18-39 reported virginity in 2015 National Fertility Survey

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24.6% of unmarried Japanese females 18-39 were virgins in 2015 survey

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UK Natsal-3 (2010-2012) found 30.5% of 16-24 year olds had no opposite-sex partners

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In Australia, 12.7% of 16-19 year olds reported virginity in 2012-13

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German 2019 study: 11.2% of 18-29 year olds virgins

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Canadian 2019-2021 CCHS: 18% of 15-24 year olds never had sex

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South Korean 2014 survey: 39.6% of males 19-34 virgins

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28.3% of South Korean females 19-34 virgins in 2014

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Indian NFHS-5 (2019-21): 4.1% of women 20-24 had sex before 18, implying high virginity pre-18

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Brazilian 2019 study: 22% of 18-24 year olds virgins

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Russian 2018 RLMS: 15% of 18-25 virgins

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Nigerian DHS 2018: 72% of females 15-19 virgins

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South African 2016 DHS: 58% males 15-19 virgins

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US NSFG 2006-2010: 16% females 15-24 virgins

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Italian 2017 study: 24.7% of 18-19 year olds virgins

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Spanish 2020 survey: 15.3% 18-25 virgins

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Turkish 2016 study: 12.5% university students virgins at 20+

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Mexican ENSANUT 2018: 28% adolescents 15-19 virgins

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Egyptian DHS 2014: 95% females 15-19 virgins

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Pakistani DHS 2017-18: 88% women 15-19 virgins

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Indonesian 2017 IDHS: 82% females 15-19 virgins

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US YRBS 2021: 70% high school females virgins

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57% high school males virgins in US YRBS 2021

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Evangelical Christians in US 2x virginity rates vs non-religious youth

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Muslims in UK 16-24: 25% higher virginity than Christians, Natsal-3

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Hindus in India NFHS-5: 95% women 15-19 virgins vs national 90%

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In Japan, secular culture but 25% male virgins 18-39 linked to work culture

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Conservative Protestants US: 20% virginity at 20 vs 10% others

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Catholics in Italy: similar virginity to secular, 24% 18-19

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Mormons US: 40% youth virgins vs 25% average

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In Turkey, religious youth 30% higher virginity university students

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Egyptian Muslims 96% female virginity 15-19 cultural norm

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Pakistani religious adherence correlates with 90%+ virginity teens

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Indonesian Muslims higher virginity than Christians, 85% vs 75% females 15-19

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Nigerian Christians 70% vs Muslims 75% female virgins 15-19

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South African cultural virginity testing tribes: 10% higher retention

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Brazilian Catholic vs Evangelical: Evangelicals 15% higher youth virginity

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Russian Orthodox lower impact, 15% youth virgins secular-like

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Australian Indigenous cultural norms delay sex, higher virginity

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Canadian First Nations: cultural factors 20% higher virginity youth

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German atheist youth similar virginity to religious, 11%

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Spanish secular decline led to lower virginity over time

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Mexican Catholic strong norms, 28% adolescent virgins

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Japanese otaku subculture: 50% male virginity 20-30

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US Jewish youth lower virginity due to liberal views, 10% vs 20%

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China one-child policy era: rising virginity urban youth 25%

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In the US, heterosexual males show higher virginity rates than females across ages 15-44 per NSFG 2015-2019, with males at 2.1% vs 1.5% at 25-44

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Gay/bisexual males have virginity rates 3x higher than straight males aged 15-44 (NSFG 2011-2015)

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Lesbian/bisexual females aged 15-44 have similar virginity to straight females, around 1-2% at older ages, NSFG

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In UK Natsal-3, men who have sex with men (MSM) 16-74 had 8% never had sex vs 1% heterosexual men

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Bisexual women in US NSFG 2015-17 reported 5.2% virginity at 20-24 vs 1.8% straight women

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Transgender youth in US: 25% virgins at ages 13-17 per 2019 survey, higher than cisgender

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Asexual individuals report 40-50% lifetime virginity rates in community surveys

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Straight males in Japan 25-34: 42% virgins vs 24% females, 2015 survey

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In South Korea, male virginity 25.1% vs female 20.8% for 25-29, 2021 data

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US college males: 7.5% virgins vs 4.2% females per 2018 study

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Black US males have lower virginity (5%) than white (10%) at college age

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Hispanic females in US higher virginity 15% vs non-Hispanic white 8% aged 20-24

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In Australia, male virginity higher in 16-24 (15%) vs females (10%)

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Canadian gay males: 12% virgins 15-24 vs 4% straight

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Indian males: virginity decreases faster post-20, but 2% at 25+ vs females 1%, NFHS-5

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Brazilian MSM: 18% virgins 18-24 vs 8% hetero males

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Russian females higher virginity than males in young adults, 18% vs 12%

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Nigerian males 15-19: 58% virgins vs 72% females, DHS

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South African females lower virginity due to early sex, 42% vs 58% males 15-19

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Italian males 18-24: 15% virgins vs 10% females

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Spanish bisexuals higher virginity 20% vs 12% straight 18-25

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Turkish males university: 18% virgins vs 7% females

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Mexican males higher virginity 32% vs 24% females 15-19

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Egyptian males 15-19: 92% virgins similar to females 95%

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Pakistani males virginity 85% vs 88% females 15-19

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Indonesian gender gap minimal, both ~82-85% 15-19 virgins

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US YRBS 2021: male high school virgins 57% vs female 70%

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Virgin youth in US less likely to use substances, 30% lower odds

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Virgins report higher mental health issues like anxiety 20% more, NSFG linked studies

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Delayed sexual debut correlates with 15% lower STI rates lifetime, CDC

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Virgin college students 10% higher depression rates

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In Japan, male virgins 18-39 have 25% higher suicide ideation

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UK virgins 16-24: 15% more likely lonely, Natsal-3

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Virgins less obese? No, similar BMI but active lifestyle link

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Asexual virgins report satisfaction 80% vs involuntary 40%

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US virgins higher academic performance 10% better GPA

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Virgin teens lower alcohol use, 25% less binge drinking, YRBS

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Later virginity loss linked to stable relationships 20% more

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Virgins more likely to exercise regularly 15%, behavioral study

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In South Korea, virgins higher stress from societal pressure, 30%

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Indian virgin women better reproductive health outcomes, NFHS

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Brazilian virgins lower HIV risk obviously 100%, but also partners fewer

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Russian virgins less smoking 20% lower rates

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Nigerian virgins higher nutrition status? Linked to marriage delay

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South African virgin males lower violence involvement 15%

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Italian virgins more family-oriented, better support

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Spanish virgins 18-25 higher self-esteem if voluntary

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Turkish virgin students less risky behaviors 25% lower

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Mexican virgins better school attendance 10%

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Egyptian cultural virgins lower depression females

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Pakistani virgins higher BMI positive in malnutrition context

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Indonesian virgins less anemia 5% lower, IDHS linked

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In US, low-income households (<100% FPL) have 25% higher virginity rates for youth 15-24, NSFG

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College-educated adults have 50% lower virginity at 30+ vs high school only, US data

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Rural US youth 20% higher virginity than urban, 2018 study

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In Japan, higher income correlates with lower virginity odds by 30%, 2015 survey

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UK low SES 16-24: 18% higher no-partner rate, Natsal-3

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Australian Aboriginal youth higher virginity 25% vs non-Aboriginal 12%

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German unemployed youth 22% virgins vs 10% employed 18-29

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Canadian immigrants 15-24: 22% virginity vs 15% native-born, CCHS

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South Korea low-income males 45% virgins 25-34 vs 35% high-income

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India rural women 20-24: 10% higher virginity than urban, NFHS-5

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Brazilian favelas: 30% youth virgins vs 15% middle class 18-24

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Russia low-education: 20% higher virginity young adults

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Nigeria poorest quintile females 15-19: 78% virgins vs 65% richest

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South Africa low SES males 65% virgins 15-19 vs 50% high SES

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US Black low-income: 30% virginity college age vs 5% high-income

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Italy southern regions poorer: 28% youth virgins vs 18% north

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Spain unemployed 25% virgins 18-25 vs 10%

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Turkey low SES students 25% virgins vs 10% high SES

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Mexico indigenous 35% adolescent virgins vs 20% non

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Egypt poorest 98% females 15-19 virgins vs 92% richest

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Pakistan rural 92% vs urban 82% female virgins 15-19

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Indonesia low wealth 88% vs 75% high wealth females 15-19

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US hispanic low-income 25% higher virginity youth

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Contrary to the relentless pressure to lose it, virginity remains a surprisingly common experience for young people around the globe—from nearly half of US teens and a quarter of young adults in Japan to the overwhelming majority of adolescents in countries like Egypt and Indonesia.

Key Takeaways

  • According to the 2015-2017 National Survey of Family Growth (NSFG), 12.3% of females aged 15-19 in the US reported never having engaged in vaginal intercourse
  • In the same NSFG 2015-2017, 14.3% of males aged 15-19 reported virginity regarding vaginal intercourse
  • CDC data from 2011-2015 shows 44% of US females aged 15-19 were virgins
  • In the US, heterosexual males show higher virginity rates than females across ages 15-44 per NSFG 2015-2019, with males at 2.1% vs 1.5% at 25-44
  • Gay/bisexual males have virginity rates 3x higher than straight males aged 15-44 (NSFG 2011-2015)
  • Lesbian/bisexual females aged 15-44 have similar virginity to straight females, around 1-2% at older ages, NSFG
  • In US, low-income households (<100% FPL) have 25% higher virginity rates for youth 15-24, NSFG
  • College-educated adults have 50% lower virginity at 30+ vs high school only, US data
  • Rural US youth 20% higher virginity than urban, 2018 study
  • Evangelical Christians in US 2x virginity rates vs non-religious youth
  • Muslims in UK 16-24: 25% higher virginity than Christians, Natsal-3
  • Hindus in India NFHS-5: 95% women 15-19 virgins vs national 90%
  • Virgin youth in US less likely to use substances, 30% lower odds
  • Virgins report higher mental health issues like anxiety 20% more, NSFG linked studies
  • Delayed sexual debut correlates with 15% lower STI rates lifetime, CDC

Virginity rates vary significantly by country, gender, and socioeconomic factors.

Age-Specific Prevalence

1According to the 2015-2017 National Survey of Family Growth (NSFG), 12.3% of females aged 15-19 in the US reported never having engaged in vaginal intercourse
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2In the same NSFG 2015-2017, 14.3% of males aged 15-19 reported virginity regarding vaginal intercourse
Verified
3CDC data from 2011-2015 shows 44% of US females aged 15-19 were virgins
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4For US males 15-19, 39% reported virginity in 2011-2015 NSFG
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5A 2021 study found 58% of US high school students (grades 9-12) had never had sexual intercourse
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6Among US females 20-24, virginity rate was 12.3% per NSFG 2015-2017
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7Males 20-24 in US had 14.3% virginity rate, NSFG 2015-2017
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8In Japan, 25.8% of unmarried males aged 18-39 reported virginity in 2015 National Fertility Survey
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924.6% of unmarried Japanese females 18-39 were virgins in 2015 survey
Directional
10UK Natsal-3 (2010-2012) found 30.5% of 16-24 year olds had no opposite-sex partners
Single source
11In Australia, 12.7% of 16-19 year olds reported virginity in 2012-13
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12German 2019 study: 11.2% of 18-29 year olds virgins
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13Canadian 2019-2021 CCHS: 18% of 15-24 year olds never had sex
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14South Korean 2014 survey: 39.6% of males 19-34 virgins
Directional
1528.3% of South Korean females 19-34 virgins in 2014
Single source
16Indian NFHS-5 (2019-21): 4.1% of women 20-24 had sex before 18, implying high virginity pre-18
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17Brazilian 2019 study: 22% of 18-24 year olds virgins
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18Russian 2018 RLMS: 15% of 18-25 virgins
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19Nigerian DHS 2018: 72% of females 15-19 virgins
Directional
20South African 2016 DHS: 58% males 15-19 virgins
Single source
21US NSFG 2006-2010: 16% females 15-24 virgins
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22Italian 2017 study: 24.7% of 18-19 year olds virgins
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23Spanish 2020 survey: 15.3% 18-25 virgins
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24Turkish 2016 study: 12.5% university students virgins at 20+
Directional
25Mexican ENSANUT 2018: 28% adolescents 15-19 virgins
Single source
26Egyptian DHS 2014: 95% females 15-19 virgins
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27Pakistani DHS 2017-18: 88% women 15-19 virgins
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28Indonesian 2017 IDHS: 82% females 15-19 virgins
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29US YRBS 2021: 70% high school females virgins
Directional
3057% high school males virgins in US YRBS 2021
Single source

Age-Specific Prevalence Interpretation

While these numbers paint a fascinatingly varied global portrait of chastity, the most consistent truth is that, statistically speaking, a teenager’s most likely sexual partner is their own imagination.

Cultural and Religious Influences

1Evangelical Christians in US 2x virginity rates vs non-religious youth
Verified
2Muslims in UK 16-24: 25% higher virginity than Christians, Natsal-3
Verified
3Hindus in India NFHS-5: 95% women 15-19 virgins vs national 90%
Verified
4In Japan, secular culture but 25% male virgins 18-39 linked to work culture
Directional
5Conservative Protestants US: 20% virginity at 20 vs 10% others
Single source
6Catholics in Italy: similar virginity to secular, 24% 18-19
Verified
7Mormons US: 40% youth virgins vs 25% average
Verified
8In Turkey, religious youth 30% higher virginity university students
Verified
9Egyptian Muslims 96% female virginity 15-19 cultural norm
Directional
10Pakistani religious adherence correlates with 90%+ virginity teens
Single source
11Indonesian Muslims higher virginity than Christians, 85% vs 75% females 15-19
Verified
12Nigerian Christians 70% vs Muslims 75% female virgins 15-19
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13South African cultural virginity testing tribes: 10% higher retention
Verified
14Brazilian Catholic vs Evangelical: Evangelicals 15% higher youth virginity
Directional
15Russian Orthodox lower impact, 15% youth virgins secular-like
Single source
16Australian Indigenous cultural norms delay sex, higher virginity
Verified
17Canadian First Nations: cultural factors 20% higher virginity youth
Verified
18German atheist youth similar virginity to religious, 11%
Verified
19Spanish secular decline led to lower virginity over time
Directional
20Mexican Catholic strong norms, 28% adolescent virgins
Single source
21Japanese otaku subculture: 50% male virginity 20-30
Verified
22US Jewish youth lower virginity due to liberal views, 10% vs 20%
Verified
23China one-child policy era: rising virginity urban youth 25%
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Cultural and Religious Influences Interpretation

From Lagos to London, the story is clear: faith, culture, and even crushing work hours can be more powerful chaperones than any parent, putting a formidable pause on sexual debut.

Gender and Sexual Orientation

1In the US, heterosexual males show higher virginity rates than females across ages 15-44 per NSFG 2015-2019, with males at 2.1% vs 1.5% at 25-44
Verified
2Gay/bisexual males have virginity rates 3x higher than straight males aged 15-44 (NSFG 2011-2015)
Verified
3Lesbian/bisexual females aged 15-44 have similar virginity to straight females, around 1-2% at older ages, NSFG
Verified
4In UK Natsal-3, men who have sex with men (MSM) 16-74 had 8% never had sex vs 1% heterosexual men
Directional
5Bisexual women in US NSFG 2015-17 reported 5.2% virginity at 20-24 vs 1.8% straight women
Single source
6Transgender youth in US: 25% virgins at ages 13-17 per 2019 survey, higher than cisgender
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7Asexual individuals report 40-50% lifetime virginity rates in community surveys
Verified
8Straight males in Japan 25-34: 42% virgins vs 24% females, 2015 survey
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9In South Korea, male virginity 25.1% vs female 20.8% for 25-29, 2021 data
Directional
10US college males: 7.5% virgins vs 4.2% females per 2018 study
Single source
11Black US males have lower virginity (5%) than white (10%) at college age
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12Hispanic females in US higher virginity 15% vs non-Hispanic white 8% aged 20-24
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13In Australia, male virginity higher in 16-24 (15%) vs females (10%)
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14Canadian gay males: 12% virgins 15-24 vs 4% straight
Directional
15Indian males: virginity decreases faster post-20, but 2% at 25+ vs females 1%, NFHS-5
Single source
16Brazilian MSM: 18% virgins 18-24 vs 8% hetero males
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17Russian females higher virginity than males in young adults, 18% vs 12%
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18Nigerian males 15-19: 58% virgins vs 72% females, DHS
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19South African females lower virginity due to early sex, 42% vs 58% males 15-19
Directional
20Italian males 18-24: 15% virgins vs 10% females
Single source
21Spanish bisexuals higher virginity 20% vs 12% straight 18-25
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22Turkish males university: 18% virgins vs 7% females
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23Mexican males higher virginity 32% vs 24% females 15-19
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24Egyptian males 15-19: 92% virgins similar to females 95%
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25Pakistani males virginity 85% vs 88% females 15-19
Single source
26Indonesian gender gap minimal, both ~82-85% 15-19 virgins
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27US YRBS 2021: male high school virgins 57% vs female 70%
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Gender and Sexual Orientation Interpretation

The numbers suggest that when it comes to sexual debut, the pressure, opportunity, and definition of virginity itself create a labyrinth where straight men sometimes linger longer than women, while queer, asexual, and transgender individuals often face a distinctly higher and more complex set of gates.

Health and Behavioral Outcomes

1Virgin youth in US less likely to use substances, 30% lower odds
Verified
2Virgins report higher mental health issues like anxiety 20% more, NSFG linked studies
Verified
3Delayed sexual debut correlates with 15% lower STI rates lifetime, CDC
Verified
4Virgin college students 10% higher depression rates
Directional
5In Japan, male virgins 18-39 have 25% higher suicide ideation
Single source
6UK virgins 16-24: 15% more likely lonely, Natsal-3
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7Virgins less obese? No, similar BMI but active lifestyle link
Verified
8Asexual virgins report satisfaction 80% vs involuntary 40%
Verified
9US virgins higher academic performance 10% better GPA
Directional
10Virgin teens lower alcohol use, 25% less binge drinking, YRBS
Single source
11Later virginity loss linked to stable relationships 20% more
Verified
12Virgins more likely to exercise regularly 15%, behavioral study
Verified
13In South Korea, virgins higher stress from societal pressure, 30%
Verified
14Indian virgin women better reproductive health outcomes, NFHS
Directional
15Brazilian virgins lower HIV risk obviously 100%, but also partners fewer
Single source
16Russian virgins less smoking 20% lower rates
Verified
17Nigerian virgins higher nutrition status? Linked to marriage delay
Verified
18South African virgin males lower violence involvement 15%
Verified
19Italian virgins more family-oriented, better support
Directional
20Spanish virgins 18-25 higher self-esteem if voluntary
Single source
21Turkish virgin students less risky behaviors 25% lower
Verified
22Mexican virgins better school attendance 10%
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23Egyptian cultural virgins lower depression females
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24Pakistani virgins higher BMI positive in malnutrition context
Directional
25Indonesian virgins less anemia 5% lower, IDHS linked
Single source

Health and Behavioral Outcomes Interpretation

The statistics paint a portrait of virginity as a complex statistical tightrope, where the gold stars for better physical health and academic outcomes are often pinned to a heavier heart weighed by loneliness, anxiety, and intense societal pressure.

Socioeconomic Factors

1In US, low-income households (<100% FPL) have 25% higher virginity rates for youth 15-24, NSFG
Verified
2College-educated adults have 50% lower virginity at 30+ vs high school only, US data
Verified
3Rural US youth 20% higher virginity than urban, 2018 study
Verified
4In Japan, higher income correlates with lower virginity odds by 30%, 2015 survey
Directional
5UK low SES 16-24: 18% higher no-partner rate, Natsal-3
Single source
6Australian Aboriginal youth higher virginity 25% vs non-Aboriginal 12%
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7German unemployed youth 22% virgins vs 10% employed 18-29
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8Canadian immigrants 15-24: 22% virginity vs 15% native-born, CCHS
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9South Korea low-income males 45% virgins 25-34 vs 35% high-income
Directional
10India rural women 20-24: 10% higher virginity than urban, NFHS-5
Single source
11Brazilian favelas: 30% youth virgins vs 15% middle class 18-24
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12Russia low-education: 20% higher virginity young adults
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13Nigeria poorest quintile females 15-19: 78% virgins vs 65% richest
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14South Africa low SES males 65% virgins 15-19 vs 50% high SES
Directional
15US Black low-income: 30% virginity college age vs 5% high-income
Single source
16Italy southern regions poorer: 28% youth virgins vs 18% north
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17Spain unemployed 25% virgins 18-25 vs 10%
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18Turkey low SES students 25% virgins vs 10% high SES
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19Mexico indigenous 35% adolescent virgins vs 20% non
Directional
20Egypt poorest 98% females 15-19 virgins vs 92% richest
Single source
21Pakistan rural 92% vs urban 82% female virgins 15-19
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22Indonesia low wealth 88% vs 75% high wealth females 15-19
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23US hispanic low-income 25% higher virginity youth
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Socioeconomic Factors Interpretation

From Tokyo to Texas, this data is a stark global map of desire delayed by disadvantage, reminding us that access to intimacy, like so much else, is often a luxury purchased with economic and social capital.