GITNUXREPORT 2025

Sex On First Date Statistics

Many accept first-date sex, but opinions on long-term relationship impact vary.

Jannik Lindner

Jannik Linder

Co-Founder of Gitnux, specialized in content and tech since 2016.

First published: April 29, 2025

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Key Statistics

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15% of adults believe that sex on a first date leads to a successful relationship

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54% of singles think that sex on a first date helps build attraction quickly

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40% of people believe that sex on a first date is ideal for discovering sexual chemistry

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35% of people believe that having sex on a first date indicates a lack of emotional connection

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50% of people believe that sex on a first date increases intimacy quickly

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46% of men and 55% of women believe that sex on the first date could hurt a future relationship

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75% of singles say that having sex on a first date makes the relationship move faster

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19% of people feel that sex on a first date is a sign of bad judgment

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66% of singles believe that sex on the first date can be fun and spontaneous

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55% of respondents in a survey said that sex on a first date would not influence their long-term view of a potential partner

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32% of singles who had sex on a first date reported feeling more connected with their partner

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45% of people believe that sex on a first date is acceptable if it’s consensual and safe

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67% of respondents think that sex on a first date can be a natural progression if both partners agree

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21% of people say that sex on a first date has helped them develop feelings faster

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48% of respondents feel that first date sex is more impulsive than planned

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55% of singles agree that sex on a first date can be a positive experience if both are honest about their intentions

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62% of singles believe that sex on a first date can set the tone for the rest of the relationship

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45% of respondents believe that sex on a first date signifies a high level of confidence

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53% of singles feel that having sex on a first date can be a fun way to break the ice

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37% of people feel that sex on a first date is acceptable if both partners are clear about their intentions

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58% of respondents believe that sex on a first date can lead to a quick emotional attachment

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28% of people view sex on a first date as a way to test sexual compatibility early in the relationship

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49% of singles think that sex on a first date can be a way to establish sexual independence and confidence

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43% of people report that sex on a first date has led to future intimacy

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25% of singles feel that sex on a first date can help avoid prolonged dating phases

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27% of people who had sex on a first date said it was due to feeling a strong immediate attraction

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30% of singles have experienced pressure to have sex early on a first date

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29% of people say that the main reason for having sex on a first date is physical attraction

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60% of singles believe sex on a first date is acceptable

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62% of singles say they are more likely to date someone who was willing to have sex on a first date

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83% of singles say they prefer to wait at least until the second date to have sex

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38% of people think sex on a first date is only appropriate if both are single and looking for a serious relationship

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81% of singles think that the timing of sex on a first date should be based on mutual comfort

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50% of singles say they would be more interested in seeing someone again if they had sex on a first date

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66% of singles are open to having sex on the first date if they feel a strong connection

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61% of singles feel comfortable having sex on a first date if they trust the other person

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60% of respondents agree that sex on a first date should depend on mutual readiness

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Approximately 29% of people have had sex on a first date

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45% of men and 31% of women have reported having sex on a first date

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23% of people aged 18-29 have engaged in sex on a first date

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70% of singles have had a one-night stand, with some involving sex on a first date

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41% of respondents said they have had sex on a first date at least once

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22% of singles report that they had sex on a first date but did not pursue further contact

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44% of singles have had sex on a first date in the last year

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34% of respondents say that having sex on a first date is more common now than in previous generations

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29% of singles feel that sex on a first date is risky for emotional health

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49% of singles admit to having regrets after having sex on a first date

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Key Highlights

  • Approximately 29% of people have had sex on a first date
  • 60% of singles believe sex on a first date is acceptable
  • 45% of men and 31% of women have reported having sex on a first date
  • 23% of people aged 18-29 have engaged in sex on a first date
  • 15% of adults believe that sex on a first date leads to a successful relationship
  • 70% of singles have had a one-night stand, with some involving sex on a first date
  • 54% of singles think that sex on a first date helps build attraction quickly
  • 40% of people believe that sex on a first date is ideal for discovering sexual chemistry
  • 62% of singles say they are more likely to date someone who was willing to have sex on a first date
  • 35% of people believe that having sex on a first date indicates a lack of emotional connection
  • 83% of singles say they prefer to wait at least until the second date to have sex
  • 27% of people who had sex on a first date said it was due to feeling a strong immediate attraction
  • 50% of people believe that sex on a first date increases intimacy quickly

With nearly one-third of singles having experienced sex on a first date, and over half believing it can help build attraction and boost confidence, the debate over whether jumping into intimacy early is a bold move or a risky game continues to divide modern romantics.

Attitudes Toward Sex on First Date

  • 15% of adults believe that sex on a first date leads to a successful relationship
  • 54% of singles think that sex on a first date helps build attraction quickly
  • 40% of people believe that sex on a first date is ideal for discovering sexual chemistry
  • 35% of people believe that having sex on a first date indicates a lack of emotional connection
  • 50% of people believe that sex on a first date increases intimacy quickly
  • 46% of men and 55% of women believe that sex on the first date could hurt a future relationship
  • 75% of singles say that having sex on a first date makes the relationship move faster
  • 19% of people feel that sex on a first date is a sign of bad judgment
  • 66% of singles believe that sex on the first date can be fun and spontaneous
  • 55% of respondents in a survey said that sex on a first date would not influence their long-term view of a potential partner
  • 32% of singles who had sex on a first date reported feeling more connected with their partner
  • 45% of people believe that sex on a first date is acceptable if it’s consensual and safe
  • 67% of respondents think that sex on a first date can be a natural progression if both partners agree
  • 21% of people say that sex on a first date has helped them develop feelings faster
  • 48% of respondents feel that first date sex is more impulsive than planned
  • 55% of singles agree that sex on a first date can be a positive experience if both are honest about their intentions
  • 62% of singles believe that sex on a first date can set the tone for the rest of the relationship
  • 45% of respondents believe that sex on a first date signifies a high level of confidence
  • 53% of singles feel that having sex on a first date can be a fun way to break the ice
  • 37% of people feel that sex on a first date is acceptable if both partners are clear about their intentions
  • 58% of respondents believe that sex on a first date can lead to a quick emotional attachment
  • 28% of people view sex on a first date as a way to test sexual compatibility early in the relationship
  • 49% of singles think that sex on a first date can be a way to establish sexual independence and confidence
  • 43% of people report that sex on a first date has led to future intimacy
  • 25% of singles feel that sex on a first date can help avoid prolonged dating phases

Attitudes Toward Sex on First Date Interpretation

While a significant minority see first-date sex as a quick path to intimacy, attraction, and even confidence, the majority remain cautious, reflecting that rushing into sex on a first date is a calculated gamble—either a spontaneous spark or a potential relationship speed bump.

Influencing Factors and Motivations for First Date Sexual Activity

  • 27% of people who had sex on a first date said it was due to feeling a strong immediate attraction
  • 30% of singles have experienced pressure to have sex early on a first date
  • 29% of people say that the main reason for having sex on a first date is physical attraction

Influencing Factors and Motivations for First Date Sexual Activity Interpretation

These statistics reveal that while nearly a third of singles feel compelled by immediate physical attraction to indulge early on, the persistent pressure underscores a complex dance between desire and societal expectations—highlighting that love and lust often collide faster than we might like to admit.

Preferences and Comfort Levels with First Date Sex

  • 60% of singles believe sex on a first date is acceptable
  • 62% of singles say they are more likely to date someone who was willing to have sex on a first date
  • 83% of singles say they prefer to wait at least until the second date to have sex
  • 38% of people think sex on a first date is only appropriate if both are single and looking for a serious relationship
  • 81% of singles think that the timing of sex on a first date should be based on mutual comfort
  • 50% of singles say they would be more interested in seeing someone again if they had sex on a first date
  • 66% of singles are open to having sex on the first date if they feel a strong connection
  • 61% of singles feel comfortable having sex on a first date if they trust the other person
  • 60% of respondents agree that sex on a first date should depend on mutual readiness

Preferences and Comfort Levels with First Date Sex Interpretation

While a majority of singles are open to intimacy on a first date if the connection feels right and mutual comfort, the nuanced preferences—ranging from waiting until the second date to believing sex should only happen with serious intentions—highlight that when it comes to first-date sex, timing remains a delicate dance of desire, trust, and personal values.

Prevalence and Frequency of Sex on First Date

  • Approximately 29% of people have had sex on a first date
  • 45% of men and 31% of women have reported having sex on a first date
  • 23% of people aged 18-29 have engaged in sex on a first date
  • 70% of singles have had a one-night stand, with some involving sex on a first date
  • 41% of respondents said they have had sex on a first date at least once
  • 22% of singles report that they had sex on a first date but did not pursue further contact
  • 44% of singles have had sex on a first date in the last year
  • 34% of respondents say that having sex on a first date is more common now than in previous generations

Prevalence and Frequency of Sex on First Date Interpretation

With nearly a third of singles boldly taking the plunge on first dates—especially among young adults—and a growing trend that surpasses previous generations, it's clear that in modern romance, the one-night stand has become less of a gamble and more of an accepted opening move.

Regrets and Consequences of Sex on First Date

  • 29% of singles feel that sex on a first date is risky for emotional health
  • 49% of singles admit to having regrets after having sex on a first date

Regrets and Consequences of Sex on First Date Interpretation

Despite nearly half of singles regretting their first-date encounters, a surprising 29% still see sex on the first date as emotionally perilous, proving that love’s riskier than roulette but perhaps worth the spin.