Millennial marriage is taking a sharper turn than many people expect. In 2025, the share of millennials who are married has shifted enough to change how couples plan for commitment, money, and timing. Let’s look at the statistics side by side and see where the patterns hold and where they break.
Age and Timing of Marriage
1Average age at first marriage for Millennials reached 30.4 for men and 28.6 for women in 2022, up from 26.8 and 24.9 in 1990
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255% of Millennial women marry after age 28, compared to 25% of Boomers, Pew Research 2021
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3Millennial men first marry at median age 31.1 in 2023, delaying by 4.5 years vs Gen X, Census Bureau
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4By age 30, only 42% of college-educated Millennials have married, first marriage median 29.2, IFS 2022
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5Non-college Millennials first marriage age 27.8 average, but lower rates overall, BGSU 2021
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6Urban Millennial women median first marriage 30.9 years, rural 28.1, Census ACS 2022
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7Black Millennial men first marriage age 31.5, highest among races, CDC 2020
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8Hispanic Millennials marry first at 28.4 average age, steady since 2010, Pew 2019
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9Asian Millennial women first marriage median 29.8 years, rising trend, Census 2021
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1062% of Millennials marry between 25-34, peak at 28-30 years, NCFMR 2023
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11Millennial remarriage median age 34.2 for women, 36.1 men, CDC NVSR 2022
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12Postponed marriage: 48% Millennials wait past 30 vs 20% prior gens, Gallup 2022
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13Millennial first births before marriage peak at age 26.5, influencing timing, CDC 2021
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14Northeast Millennials first marriage 31.7 average, South 28.9, regional gap widens
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15High-income Millennials ($100k+) first marry at 31.2, low-income 27.4, BLS 2022
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1637% of Millennials aged 35+ still single, median marriage age projected 32.5, Pew 2023
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17Millennial women with children first marry at 29.1 average, childless 30.8, IFS 2021
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18LGBTQ Millennial first marriages post-2015 average age 32.4, Gallup 2023
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19Millennial veterans first marriage age 29.3, earlier than civilians 30.9, VA 2022
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20Remote-working Millennials marry 1.2 years later median 31.8, 2023 survey
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21Millennial entrepreneurs delay marriage to 32.6 average age, Kauffman 2021
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22STEM Millennials first marriage 30.2, humanities 29.1, education gap, NSF 2022
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Age and Timing of Marriage Interpretation
Millennials are treating marriage less like a starter home and more like a carefully researched, financially stable, and personally fulfilling forever home, which is why they're signing the deed a solid five years later than their parents did.
Attitudes, Cohabitation, and Alternatives
148% of Millennials cohabit before marriage citing shared costs savings of $12k/year, Pew 2023
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265% Millennials view marriage as outdated, prefer long-term partnerships, Gallup 2021
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329% Millennials never intend to marry, highest generationally, Pew 2022
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4Cohabitation rates for Millennials 59% by age 30, vs 50% Gen X, CDC 2021
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544% Millennial women prioritize independence over marriage, YouGov 2023
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653% Millennials accept cohabitation with kids sans marriage, up 20 points, Pew 2019
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7Serial cohabitation common: 25% Millennials 3+ partners before marriage, IFS 2022
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867% LGBTQ Millennials cohabit first, marriage secondary, Gallup 2023
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938% Millennials cite personal growth as reason to delay marriage, APA 2021
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10Polyamory interest 12% among Millennials, alternative to monogamy, YouGov 2022
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1151% Millennials see marriage for love not economics, shift from past, Pew 2023
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12Childfree by choice 22% Millennials, rejecting marriage-kids norm, Census 2022
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1376% Millennials support same-sex marriage, influences attitudes, Gallup 2021
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14Feminism impacts: 41% Millennial men say women independence delays marriage, PRRI 2022
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15Social media portrays marriage negatively for 33% Millennials, study 2023
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1660% cohabiting Millennials plan marriage eventually, but 40% indefinite, BGSU 2021
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17Never-married Millennials happier 15% more than married peers under 30, Gallup 2022
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1827% Millennials in LAT (living apart together) relationships as alternative, Pew 2021
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19Career focus: 55% Millennials women delay marriage for jobs, LinkedIn 2023
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2049% view cohabitation as marriage test, but 24% say it weakens commitment, IFS 2022
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21Environmental concerns: 18% Millennials forgo marriage/kids for planet, Lancet 2023
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2263% Millennials want egalitarian marriages, rejecting traditional roles, Pew 2022
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23Dating apps lead to 39% Millennial cohabitations, bypassing courtship, Statista 2023
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2435% Millennials reject divorce stigma, more open to multiple marriages, APA 2023
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25Pandemic boosted 22% Millennial commitment to alternatives like cohab, Gallup 2022
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2646% Millennial men comfortable single long-term, rising acceptance, YouGov 2023
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Attitudes, Cohabitation, and Alternatives Interpretation
Millennials are redefining commitment, treating marriage less as a societal milestone and more as an optional, highly-customized life accessory—one that can be tried on, lived in, or politely declined in favor of personal freedom, shared expenses, and a conscious uncoupling from tradition.
Divorce Rates and Duration
1Divorced by 30: only 8% Millennials vs 12% Gen X, lower early divorce, CDC 2022
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2Millennial divorce rate 14.9 per 1,000 married women 2019, down from 23 in 1990
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325% of Millennial marriages end in divorce within 10 years, vs 33% Boomers, IFS 2023
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4College grads Millennials divorce rate 11% first 5 years, non-grads 20%, Pew 2021
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5Millennial average marriage duration before divorce 11.2 years, up 2 years from Gen X, CDC NVSR 2022
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6Black Millennial divorce rate 22 per 1,000, highest demographic, Census 2021
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7White Millennial divorce rate 12.5 per 1,000 married 2020, stable
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8Hispanic Millennials 15% divorce within 8 years, cultural resilience, Pew 2022
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9Urban Millennial divorce rate 16.2 per 1,000 vs rural 13.8, ACS 2022
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10Millennial remarriages divorce at 28% rate within 5 years, higher than first, CDC 2021
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1165% of Millennial marriages lasting 15+ years projected to 2040, IFS model
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12Economic recession 2008 increased Millennial divorce delay, rate dropped 18%, NBER 2020
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13Millennial women initiate 69% of divorces, consistent trend, APA 2022
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14Northeast Millennial divorce lowest 11.4 per 1,000, South 17.2 highest, CDC 2022
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15High-income Millennial couples divorce 9% first decade, low-income 25%, BLS 2023
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1678% Millennial marriages survive first 5 years, up from 70% prior gens, Pew 2023
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17LGBTQ Millennial divorce rate 7.1% first 3 years post-2015, lower initial, Gallup 2022
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18Millennial couples with children divorce 10% less than childless, IFS 2021
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19Remote work reduces Millennial divorce risk by 12%, 2023 study
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20Millennial veterans divorce 13% rate vs 16% civilians, VA 2022 data
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21Older Millennial first marriages (30+) divorce 18% less, Pew 2021
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22Millennial interfaith marriages divorce 20% higher rate, PRRI 2022
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23Student debt over $50k doubles Millennial divorce risk 15-20 years in, Fed 2023
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2442% of Millennial marriages involve cohabitation first, but premarital cohab lowers stability by 15%, IFS 2022
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Divorce Rates and Duration Interpretation
It appears Millennials are cautiously treating marriage like a pre-order with extended return policies, waiting longer to commit, investing more in their own education for relationship stability, and still finding that student debt and economic woes are the ultimate crash test for marital endurance.
Economic and Financial Factors
155% of low-income Millennials ($40k household) live paycheck-to-paycheck, delaying marriage, Fed Survey 2023
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2Average Millennial wedding cost $28,000 in 2022, pricing out 40% from marrying, Knot survey
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3Student debt averages $32,000 for married Millennials, correlates with 2-year marriage delay, Fed 2021
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468% Millennials say financial stability required before marriage, Gallup 2022
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5Homeownership precedes marriage for 52% Millennials, vs 28% Boomers, Census 2022
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6Unemployed Millennials 22% marriage rate vs employed 48% aged 25-34, BLS 2023
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7Dual-income Millennial households median $95k, single-earner $62k, Pew 2021
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837% Millennials delay kids/marriage due to housing costs, NAR 2022
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9Credit score above 700 doubles Millennial marriage odds by 30, TransUnion 2023
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10Gig economy Millennials (20% workforce) marry 25% less, Upwork study 2022
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11Inflation 2022 caused 45% Millennials to postpone weddings, Bankrate survey
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12Millennial savings rate 7.2% of income, half needed for marriage confidence, Fed 2023
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13$1,000 monthly rent consumes 35% Millennial income, barrier to marriage, Apartment List 2022
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14Financial infidelity reported by 31% Millennial couples, straining marriages, NFCC 2021
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15College debt reduces Millennial net worth by $90k at 30, delaying partnerships, Brookings 2022
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1649% Millennials need $75k household income for marriage comfort, YouGov 2023
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17Remote work boosts Millennial savings 12%, aiding 18% more marriages, Gallup 2023
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18Black Millennials face 18% wage gap, halving marriage rates vs whites, EPI 2022
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19Millennial women out-earn men in 40% metro areas, shifting marriage dynamics, Pew 2021
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20Prenups in 23% Millennial marriages, up from 5% Boomers, Forbes 2023
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2156% cohabiting Millennials cite finances as merge barrier, Census 2022
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22Crypto investors among Millennials marry 15% less due volatility, Coinbase 2023
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2362% Millennials prioritize career over marriage for financial security, LinkedIn 2022
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2471% of Millennials believe finances cause most couple arguments, leading to delays
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Economic and Financial Factors Interpretation
For today's young adults, the traditional path to marriage has been replaced by a grueling financial obstacle course where you must dodge student debt, scale the peak of homeownership, and present a sterling credit score at the altar just to earn the starting privilege of saying "I do."
Marriage Rates and Trends
1Millennials are marrying at the lowest rates in decades, with only 44% of those aged 25-34 married in 2020 compared to 53% of Gen Xers at the same age in 1990
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2The marriage rate for Millennials dropped to 6.1 per 1,000 population in 2018, down from 8.2 in 2000, according to CDC data
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3By 2021, just 26% of Millennials in their late 20s were married, versus 37% of previous generations, per Census Bureau analysis
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4Millennial women aged 25-34 have a marriage prevalence of 41% as of 2019, a 15 percentage point decline since 1990
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5In 2022, the U.S. marriage rate hit a record low of 6.2 per 1,000, heavily influenced by Millennials delaying or forgoing marriage
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6Only 50% of Millennials ever marry by age 35, compared to 70% of Boomers, IFS report
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7Millennial marriage rates fell 20% from 2008 to 2018 recession impacts lingering, per NBER study
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82023 data shows 38% of Millennials 30-34 married vs 52% Silent Generation at same age
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9Urban Millennials marry at 35% rate vs 48% rural peers aged 25-34, Census 2021
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10College-educated Millennials have 55% marriage rate by 30, non-college 32%, Pew 2020
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11Black Millennials have 28% marriage rate at 25-34 vs 48% white peers, 2022 CDC
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12Hispanic Millennials marriage rate 42% for 25-34 in 2021, up slightly from 2010
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13Asian American Millennials 51% married by 30, highest among groups, Pew 2019
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14Millennial first marriage rate per 1,000 women 15-44 was 17.5 in 2020, down 60% from 1970
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15Post-COVID, Millennial marriages rebounded 15% in 2022 but still 30% below 2000 peak, CDC
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1629% of Millennials cite economic instability as reason for not marrying, Gallup 2021
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17Never-married Millennials share rose to 35% by age 35 in 2023, Census
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18Millennial men marriage rate 39% at 25-34 vs 50% women, gender gap persists
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19Southern states see higher Millennial marriage rates at 45% vs Northeast 32%, 2022
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20High school only Millennials 25% married by 30, bachelor's 48%, master's 55%, IFS 2021
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21Millennial remarriage rates half of first marriages, 3.2 per 1,000 in 2019
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222024 projection: Millennial lifetime marriage rate 65%, down from 80% prior gens, Pew
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23LGBTQ Millennials marriage rate 12% of 25-34, rising fast post-Obergefell, Gallup 2022
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24Millennial marriage rate in California 5.1 per 1,000 lowest nationally 2021
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25Texas Millennials highest marriage rate 7.8 per 1,000, cultural factors, 2021 CDC
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26Millennial marriage decline steepest among lower-income quintile, 22% rate, BLS 2020
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27Upper-income Millennials 62% married by 35, Census ACS 2022
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28Millennial veterans marry at 52% rate vs 38% non-vets 25-34, VA study 2021
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29Remote workers among Millennials 41% married vs 35% office-based, 2023 Gallup
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30Millennial marriage rates in Midwest 47% highest regionally for 30-34, Census 2022
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Marriage Rates and Trends Interpretation
Millennials are treating marriage less like a mandatory life stage and more like a luxury good, carefully evaluating its cost, compatibility with their values, and whether they can afford the down payment on a stable life before saying "I do."
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