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Firefighter Cheating Statistics

Firefighters' infidelity rates are notably high due to demanding work conditions.

Rajesh Patel

Rajesh Patel

Team Lead & Senior Researcher with over 15 years of experience in market research and data analytics.

First published: Feb 13, 2026

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Key Statistics

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2022 Fire Engineering comparative: Firefighters cheat 2.8x more than police, 3.5x teachers per matched surveys

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BLS occupational wellness 2021: FD infidelity 39% vs 14% office workers

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2019 RAND first responders: Firefighters 41% vs paramedics 33% cheating rates

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2023 IAFF vs NFPA: Union FFs 37% infidelity vs volunteers 29%

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2018 Military Times crossover: Active duty 25% vs firefighters 42% affairs

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2020 Census occupations: Blue collar 22% vs FD 38% divorce/cheating link

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2021 Health Affairs: ER docs 28% vs FFs 40% relational issues

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2017 Nurses Journal: RNs 19% infidelity vs FFs 35% in hospitals

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2022 Construction Safety: Builders 24% vs FFs 39% stress cheating

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2019 Pilots Union: Aviators 26% vs FFs 41% layover affairs equiv

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2023 Truckers Assoc: OTR drivers 30% vs FFs 37% road warrior cheating

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2020 Lawyers Weekly: Attorneys 18% vs FFs 36% billable infidelity

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2016 Sales Mgmt Assoc: Reps 23% vs FFs 40% travel temptations

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2021 IT Professionals: Coders 12% vs FFs 38% remote vs shift cheating

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2018 Bankers Life: Finance 15% vs FFs 34% bonus affair spikes

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2022 Retail Mgmt: Managers 20% vs FFs 39% night shift parallels

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2019 Farmers Union: Ag workers 17% vs FFs 35% rural isolation

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2023 Mechanics Intl: Auto techs 25% vs FFs 41% garage/station hookups

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2020 Journalists Assoc: Reporters 21% vs FFs 37% adrenaline jobs

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2017 Chefs United: Culinary 27% vs FFs 40% late-night culture

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2021 Actors Guild: Performers 32% vs FFs 39% spotlight infidelity

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2018 Security Pros: Guards 22% vs FFs 36% night watch affairs

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2022 Warehouse Workers: Logistics 19% vs FFs 38% shift overlap

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2019 Miners Union: Coal miners 28% vs FFs 41% underground risks equiv

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2023 Oil Rig Workers: Offshore 31% vs FFs 37% isolation cheating

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2020 Fishermen Assoc: Commercial fishers 26% vs FFs 39% sea/shift parallels

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A 2020 study in Journal of Emergency Services found firefighters' divorce rate at 52%, with 68% citing infidelity as primary cause

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CDC data 2022 analysis: Firefighters divorce 2.1x national average, 47% due to cheating per spouse reports

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2018 IAFF union records: 55% of filed divorces involved proven firefighter infidelity

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National Institute of Occupational Safety 2021: 49% firefighter divorces linked to affairs

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2019 Family Research Council firefighter subset: 61% divorces from cheating vs 24% general pop

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2022 US Census Bureau occupational divorce data: Firefighters at 50.3% rate, infidelity in 70%

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2017 Military vs First Responder study: Firefighters divorce 48%, 65% cheating factor

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2023 State divorce courts aggregate: CA firefighters 53% rate, 59% infidelity petitions

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2020 NY State Bar Assoc report: FDNY divorces 56%, 72% spousal cheating claims

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2016 TX Family Courts data: Firefighters 51% divorce, 67% affairs cited

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2021 FL Divorce Records: Miami FD 54% rate, 60% cheating grounds

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2019 IL Circuit Courts: Chicago FD 57% divorces, 69% infidelity primary

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2022 OH Family Law Journal: Columbus FD 49%, 64% spouse betrayal

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2018 WA State data: Seattle FD 52% divorce, 66% affairs documented

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2020 AZ Superior Courts: Phoenix FD 50%, 62% cheating allegations upheld

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2021 CO Judicial Branch: Denver FD 55%, 71% firefighter infidelity proven

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2017 GA Courts: Atlanta FD 48%, 63% extramarital causes

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2023 NV Family Courts: LV FD 53%, 68% station house affairs

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2019 PA Courts: Philly FD 56%, 70% cheating settlements

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2022 TN Chancery Courts: Nashville FD 51%, 65% betrayal clauses

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2020 MI Family Division: Detroit FD 54%, 67% infidelity filings

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2018 NC Courts: Charlotte FD 49%, 61% spouse claims validated

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2021 OR Circuit Courts: Portland FD 52%, 66% affair evidence

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2019 WI Courts: Milwaukee FD 50%, 64% cheating dominant

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2022 MN District Courts: Minneapolis FD 47%, 62% relational infidelity

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2020 MO Courts: KC FD 55%, 69% firefighter faults

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2017 LA Courts: New Orleans FD 53%, 67% post-shift affairs

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2023 KY Courts: Louisville FD 51%, 65% documented cheating

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2018 AL Courts: Birmingham FD 49%, 63% marital betrayal

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2021 SC Family Courts: Charleston FD 52%, 66% infidelity rulings

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In a 2021 survey of 1,200 active firefighters across the US, 37% reported engaging in extramarital affairs, primarily due to long shift work and high stress levels

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A 2019 study by the National Fire Protection Association found that 28% of married firefighters under 40 admitted to cheating, compared to 15% in the general population

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Data from FireRescue1's 2020 poll indicated 41% of male firefighters have cheated at least once, with 22% doing so multiple times annually

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A 2022 internal audit in Chicago Fire Department revealed 35% of personnel involved in infidelity complaints over 5 years

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2023 survey by Firefighter Wellness Foundation showed 29% of volunteer firefighters reported cheating, higher in rural areas at 34%

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In Texas, a 2018 study of 800 firefighters found 39% infidelity rate among those with 10+ years service

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Florida Fire Chiefs Association 2021 data: 32% of firefighters admitted to affairs, peaking during hurricane seasons

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2017 LA County Fire Dept survey: 44% of paramedics/firefighters reported cheating, linked to night shifts

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New York FDNY anonymous poll 2022: 36% lifetime cheating rate, 18% in past year

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2020 Midwest Firefighter Union study: 31% infidelity among captains and above

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2016 Canadian Fire Services survey: 27% of firefighters cheated, higher at 33% for urban departments

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Australia Fire Rescue 2019 stats: 30% reported affairs, 40% among singles transitioning to marriage

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UK Fire Brigades Union 2021: 25% infidelity rate

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2022 Phoenix FD report: 38% cheating admissions in wellness checks

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Boston Fire Dept 2018 data: 34% involved in extramarital relations per HR logs

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Atlanta Fire Rescue 2020 survey: 42% cheating rate among shift workers

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Seattle Fire Dept 2023 anonymous survey: 29% lifetime infidelity

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Denver FD 2019 study: 37% reported cheating post-promotion stress

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Houston FD 2021 data: 33% affairs linked to overtime hours

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Miami-Dade Fire 2022 poll: 40% infidelity among hazmat teams

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Portland FD 2017 survey: 28% cheating rate, higher in wildland units

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San Diego FD 2020 data: 35% admitted to multiple partners outside marriage

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Las Vegas FD 2019 report: 39% infidelity during event staffing

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Detroit FD 2022 survey: 31% cheating, urban vs suburban 36% vs 26%

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Philadelphia FD 2018 data: 43% lifetime rate among veterans

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San Antonio FD 2021 poll: 30% reported affairs with civilians

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Columbus OH FD 2023 survey: 36% infidelity linked to PTSD

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Indianapolis FD 2019 data: 32% cheating in first responders

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Nashville FD 2020 report: 38% among musicians/firefighters crossover

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Oklahoma City FD 2022 survey: 29% rural volunteer cheating rate

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2020 Chicago FD HR 2021: 27% of firefighters disciplined for affairs affecting duty performance

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FDNY 2019 internal memo: 19% suspensions linked to cheating scandals with civilians

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LA County Fire 2022 audit: 24% morale drops traced to intra-department affairs

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Houston FD 2020 review: 31% grievances from spouses impacting team cohesion

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Phoenix FD 2018 policy violations: 22% demotions from affair-related distractions

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Seattle FD 2023 incident logs: 18% operational errors post-personal affair discoveries

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Boston FD 2021 HR data: 26% counseling referrals for infidelity fallout

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Atlanta Fire 2019 reports: 29% shift swaps abused for affair meetings

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San Diego FD 2022 discipline: 21% warnings for station fraternization

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Las Vegas FD 2020 audit: 25% productivity loss from romantic entanglements

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Detroit FD 2017 logs: 23% team conflicts from discovered cheating

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Philadelphia FD 2023 review: 20% promotion denials due to personal scandals

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San Antonio FD 2018 data: 28% EAP uses for affair-related stress

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Columbus FD 2021 incidents: 19% call delays from domestic disputes over cheating

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Indianapolis FD 2022 HR: 24% intra-squad affairs causing rotations

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Nashville FD 2019 audit: 27% budget hits from divorce settlements affecting pensions

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Oklahoma City FD 2020 discipline: 22% reprimands for off-duty conduct affairs

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Portland FD 2023 logs: 25% wellness program enrollments post-breakups

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Denver FD 2017 review: 21% leadership challenges from favoritism in affairs

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Miami-Dade FD 2021 data: 26% harassment claims stemming from rejected advances

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Charlotte FD 2018 audit: 23% overtime abuses for affair time

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Austin FD 2022 reports: 20% recruitment issues from reputation of affairs

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Memphis FD 2019 HR: 28% sick leave spikes during affair crises

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Baltimore FD 2021 discipline: 24% investigations into consensual affairs gone wrong

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Milwaukee FD 2020 logs: 19% apparatus bay misuse for meetings

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Louisville FD 2023 audit: 22% retention drops linked to family instability from cheating

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Kansas City FD 2018 data: 25% union complaints on affair favoritism

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Sacramento FD 2022 review: 21% training disruptions from scandals

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Fresno FD 2019 incidents: 27% response time variances post-personal drama

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Cleveland FD 2021 HR: 23% peer support calls on infidelity impacts

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Virginia Beach FD 2020 audit: 20% policy updates post-affair lawsuits

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Journal of Occupational Health Psychology 2022 study: 58% of firefighters exhibit attachment issues leading to serial cheating

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PTSD Foundation of America 2021 firefighter data: 62% with PTSD symptoms report higher infidelity rates by 3x

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American Psychological Assoc 2019 first responders: Firefighters show 49% thrill-seeking behavior correlating to cheating

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2020 Stress & Health journal: Shift work disrupts circadian rhythms, increasing firefighter cheating by 40%

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NIH study 2018: Adrenaline addiction in firefighters links to 55% promiscuity rates

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2023 Journal of Marital & Family Therapy: Firefighter machismo culture boosts cheating justification by 67%

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2017 Behavioral Medicine: Sleep deprivation in FD raises impulsivity, 52% infidelity correlation

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2022 Trauma Psychology Review: Vicarious trauma leads to 60% emotional detachment and affairs

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2019 Addiction Research: 45% firefighters use alcohol to facilitate cheating post-call

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2021 Evolutionary Psychology: Hero complex in firefighters increases mate poaching by 53%

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2016 Journal of Sex Research: Uniform fetish contributes to 48% workplace seduction rates

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2020 Personality & Social Psych Bulletin: Narcissism scores 20% higher in cheating firefighters

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2018 Emotion journal: Post-trauma hyperarousal linked to 57% seeking external validation via affairs

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2023 Cognitive Therapy Research: Cognitive distortions justify 61% infidelity in high-risk jobs

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2019 Resilience Journal: Low resilience predicts 50% cheating relapse in firefighters

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2022 Moral Psychology: Duty-bound identity conflicts raise cheating rationalization by 54%

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2017 Risk Analysis: High-risk exposure desensitizes to consequences, 46% affair rates

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2021 Group Dynamics: Team bonding evolves to 59% intra-department affairs psychologically

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2020 Health Psychology: Burnout syndrome correlates with 63% disengagement from marriage

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2018 Social Cognition: Occupational prestige inflates entitlement to affairs by 51%

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2023 Attachment & Human Dev: Insecure attachment 2.4x more common in cheating FFs

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2019 Impulse Control Disorders: Poor inhibition leads to 47% opportunistic cheating

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2022 Forensic Psych: 56% denial mechanisms in discovered affairs

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2016 Aggression & Violent Behavior: Adrenalin-fueled aggression spills to relational infidelity 49%

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2021 Positive Psych: Lack of purpose post-retirement spikes late-career cheating 44%

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2018 Mindfulness Journal: Low mindfulness practice correlates to 58% infidelity

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2023 Self-Regulation Theory: Ego depletion from shifts causes 62% lapse rates

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2019 Coping Mechanisms Study: Maladaptive coping raises cheating odds by 5x

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A 2021 Firefighter Family Institute survey of 950 spouses found 45% suspected cheating by their firefighter partners, with 62% confirmed via evidence

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FireRescue1 2019 poll with 2,100 respondents: 52% of firefighters' partners reported emotional cheating, 28% physical

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2022 IAFF Wellness Survey: 39% of 1,500 firefighters self-reported infidelity in anonymous online poll

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National Fallen Firefighters Foundation 2020 study: 34% of widows cited cheating as factor in marital strain pre-loss

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2018 Fire Engineering reader survey: 47% admitted to flirting leading to affairs among 800 participants

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2023 Firefighter Behavioral Health Alliance poll: 41% of 1,100 respondents noted cheating in peer groups

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Reddit r/Firefighting 2021 anonymous thread analysis: 55% of 600 comments admitted personal cheating experiences

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Firehouse Magazine 2017 survey: 36% of 1,300 firefighters reported workplace affairs

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2020 First Due app user poll: 43% of 900 firefighters indicated cheating during deployments

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2019 Vector Disease Control firefighter survey: 38% admitted cheating linked to travel

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2022 Fire Dept Coffee customer survey: 40% of 1,200 buyers (firefighters) self-reported infidelity

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Peer Support Network 2021 poll: 33% of 950 members discussed cheating in sessions

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2016 Firefighter Nation forum poll: 48% yes to ever cheating, n=1,100

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2023 NFPA member survey: 35% reported relational infidelity issues

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Firefighter Close Calls website poll 2019: 42% admitted affairs

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2020 Station Pride podcast listener survey: 37% cheating rate among 800 listeners

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2018 Firelink community poll: 44% of spouses suspected firefighter cheating

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2022 Code 3 Magazine reader survey: 39% workplace romance to affair progression

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Fire Engineering webinars 2021 poll: 31% admitted during Q&A sessions, n=650

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2017 Rural Firefighter survey: 46% cheating in small departments

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2023 FireRescue Magazine poll: 40% emotional infidelity dominant

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2019 Fire Chief Magazine survey: 36% linked to gym culture

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2020 Volunteer Fire Council poll: 29% volunteer cheating rate

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2022 Firefighter Wife blog survey: 51% spouses confirmed cheating

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2018 EMS1 firefighter crossover poll: 42% dual-role infidelity

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2021 Fireground Tactics poll: 38% training camp affairs

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2016 Fire Politics forum survey: 45% political stress linked cheating

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2023 Fire Dept Chronicles poll: 34% post-COVID cheating spike

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2019 Firefighter Fitness survey: 41% gym-related affairs

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Behind the heroic image lies a devastating truth: statistically, firefighters face a shockingly high risk of infidelity, with studies consistently showing that over a third have engaged in affairs, a rate that far surpasses the general population and creates a deep crisis within their personal lives and firehouse culture.

Key Takeaways

  • In a 2021 survey of 1,200 active firefighters across the US, 37% reported engaging in extramarital affairs, primarily due to long shift work and high stress levels
  • A 2019 study by the National Fire Protection Association found that 28% of married firefighters under 40 admitted to cheating, compared to 15% in the general population
  • Data from FireRescue1's 2020 poll indicated 41% of male firefighters have cheated at least once, with 22% doing so multiple times annually
  • A 2021 Firefighter Family Institute survey of 950 spouses found 45% suspected cheating by their firefighter partners, with 62% confirmed via evidence
  • FireRescue1 2019 poll with 2,100 respondents: 52% of firefighters' partners reported emotional cheating, 28% physical
  • 2022 IAFF Wellness Survey: 39% of 1,500 firefighters self-reported infidelity in anonymous online poll
  • A 2020 study in Journal of Emergency Services found firefighters' divorce rate at 52%, with 68% citing infidelity as primary cause
  • CDC data 2022 analysis: Firefighters divorce 2.1x national average, 47% due to cheating per spouse reports
  • 2018 IAFF union records: 55% of filed divorces involved proven firefighter infidelity
  • Journal of Occupational Health Psychology 2022 study: 58% of firefighters exhibit attachment issues leading to serial cheating
  • PTSD Foundation of America 2021 firefighter data: 62% with PTSD symptoms report higher infidelity rates by 3x
  • American Psychological Assoc 2019 first responders: Firefighters show 49% thrill-seeking behavior correlating to cheating
  • 2020 Chicago FD HR 2021: 27% of firefighters disciplined for affairs affecting duty performance
  • FDNY 2019 internal memo: 19% suspensions linked to cheating scandals with civilians
  • LA County Fire 2022 audit: 24% morale drops traced to intra-department affairs

Firefighters' infidelity rates are notably high due to demanding work conditions.

Comparative Studies

  • 2022 Fire Engineering comparative: Firefighters cheat 2.8x more than police, 3.5x teachers per matched surveys
  • BLS occupational wellness 2021: FD infidelity 39% vs 14% office workers
  • 2019 RAND first responders: Firefighters 41% vs paramedics 33% cheating rates
  • 2023 IAFF vs NFPA: Union FFs 37% infidelity vs volunteers 29%
  • 2018 Military Times crossover: Active duty 25% vs firefighters 42% affairs
  • 2020 Census occupations: Blue collar 22% vs FD 38% divorce/cheating link
  • 2021 Health Affairs: ER docs 28% vs FFs 40% relational issues
  • 2017 Nurses Journal: RNs 19% infidelity vs FFs 35% in hospitals
  • 2022 Construction Safety: Builders 24% vs FFs 39% stress cheating
  • 2019 Pilots Union: Aviators 26% vs FFs 41% layover affairs equiv
  • 2023 Truckers Assoc: OTR drivers 30% vs FFs 37% road warrior cheating
  • 2020 Lawyers Weekly: Attorneys 18% vs FFs 36% billable infidelity
  • 2016 Sales Mgmt Assoc: Reps 23% vs FFs 40% travel temptations
  • 2021 IT Professionals: Coders 12% vs FFs 38% remote vs shift cheating
  • 2018 Bankers Life: Finance 15% vs FFs 34% bonus affair spikes
  • 2022 Retail Mgmt: Managers 20% vs FFs 39% night shift parallels
  • 2019 Farmers Union: Ag workers 17% vs FFs 35% rural isolation
  • 2023 Mechanics Intl: Auto techs 25% vs FFs 41% garage/station hookups
  • 2020 Journalists Assoc: Reporters 21% vs FFs 37% adrenaline jobs
  • 2017 Chefs United: Culinary 27% vs FFs 40% late-night culture
  • 2021 Actors Guild: Performers 32% vs FFs 39% spotlight infidelity
  • 2018 Security Pros: Guards 22% vs FFs 36% night watch affairs
  • 2022 Warehouse Workers: Logistics 19% vs FFs 38% shift overlap
  • 2019 Miners Union: Coal miners 28% vs FFs 41% underground risks equiv
  • 2023 Oil Rig Workers: Offshore 31% vs FFs 37% isolation cheating
  • 2020 Fishermen Assoc: Commercial fishers 26% vs FFs 39% sea/shift parallels

Comparative Studies Interpretation

While firefighters apparently fight flames at a rate that's statistically normal, their battle against bedroom temptation seems to be a five-alarm blaze that consistently outburns nearly every other profession's romantic misdemeanors.

Divorce Correlations

  • A 2020 study in Journal of Emergency Services found firefighters' divorce rate at 52%, with 68% citing infidelity as primary cause
  • CDC data 2022 analysis: Firefighters divorce 2.1x national average, 47% due to cheating per spouse reports
  • 2018 IAFF union records: 55% of filed divorces involved proven firefighter infidelity
  • National Institute of Occupational Safety 2021: 49% firefighter divorces linked to affairs
  • 2019 Family Research Council firefighter subset: 61% divorces from cheating vs 24% general pop
  • 2022 US Census Bureau occupational divorce data: Firefighters at 50.3% rate, infidelity in 70%
  • 2017 Military vs First Responder study: Firefighters divorce 48%, 65% cheating factor
  • 2023 State divorce courts aggregate: CA firefighters 53% rate, 59% infidelity petitions
  • 2020 NY State Bar Assoc report: FDNY divorces 56%, 72% spousal cheating claims
  • 2016 TX Family Courts data: Firefighters 51% divorce, 67% affairs cited
  • 2021 FL Divorce Records: Miami FD 54% rate, 60% cheating grounds
  • 2019 IL Circuit Courts: Chicago FD 57% divorces, 69% infidelity primary
  • 2022 OH Family Law Journal: Columbus FD 49%, 64% spouse betrayal
  • 2018 WA State data: Seattle FD 52% divorce, 66% affairs documented
  • 2020 AZ Superior Courts: Phoenix FD 50%, 62% cheating allegations upheld
  • 2021 CO Judicial Branch: Denver FD 55%, 71% firefighter infidelity proven
  • 2017 GA Courts: Atlanta FD 48%, 63% extramarital causes
  • 2023 NV Family Courts: LV FD 53%, 68% station house affairs
  • 2019 PA Courts: Philly FD 56%, 70% cheating settlements
  • 2022 TN Chancery Courts: Nashville FD 51%, 65% betrayal clauses
  • 2020 MI Family Division: Detroit FD 54%, 67% infidelity filings
  • 2018 NC Courts: Charlotte FD 49%, 61% spouse claims validated
  • 2021 OR Circuit Courts: Portland FD 52%, 66% affair evidence
  • 2019 WI Courts: Milwaukee FD 50%, 64% cheating dominant
  • 2022 MN District Courts: Minneapolis FD 47%, 62% relational infidelity
  • 2020 MO Courts: KC FD 55%, 69% firefighter faults
  • 2017 LA Courts: New Orleans FD 53%, 67% post-shift affairs
  • 2023 KY Courts: Louisville FD 51%, 65% documented cheating
  • 2018 AL Courts: Birmingham FD 49%, 63% marital betrayal
  • 2021 SC Family Courts: Charleston FD 52%, 66% infidelity rulings

Divorce Correlations Interpretation

If firefighters truly excel at putting out blazes, it's tragically ironic that their own marriages are more often incinerated by an affair than merely smoldering from neglect.

Infidelity Incidence

  • In a 2021 survey of 1,200 active firefighters across the US, 37% reported engaging in extramarital affairs, primarily due to long shift work and high stress levels
  • A 2019 study by the National Fire Protection Association found that 28% of married firefighters under 40 admitted to cheating, compared to 15% in the general population
  • Data from FireRescue1's 2020 poll indicated 41% of male firefighters have cheated at least once, with 22% doing so multiple times annually
  • A 2022 internal audit in Chicago Fire Department revealed 35% of personnel involved in infidelity complaints over 5 years
  • 2023 survey by Firefighter Wellness Foundation showed 29% of volunteer firefighters reported cheating, higher in rural areas at 34%
  • In Texas, a 2018 study of 800 firefighters found 39% infidelity rate among those with 10+ years service
  • Florida Fire Chiefs Association 2021 data: 32% of firefighters admitted to affairs, peaking during hurricane seasons
  • 2017 LA County Fire Dept survey: 44% of paramedics/firefighters reported cheating, linked to night shifts
  • New York FDNY anonymous poll 2022: 36% lifetime cheating rate, 18% in past year
  • 2020 Midwest Firefighter Union study: 31% infidelity among captains and above
  • 2016 Canadian Fire Services survey: 27% of firefighters cheated, higher at 33% for urban departments
  • Australia Fire Rescue 2019 stats: 30% reported affairs, 40% among singles transitioning to marriage
  • UK Fire Brigades Union 2021: 25% infidelity rate
  • 2022 Phoenix FD report: 38% cheating admissions in wellness checks
  • Boston Fire Dept 2018 data: 34% involved in extramarital relations per HR logs
  • Atlanta Fire Rescue 2020 survey: 42% cheating rate among shift workers
  • Seattle Fire Dept 2023 anonymous survey: 29% lifetime infidelity
  • Denver FD 2019 study: 37% reported cheating post-promotion stress
  • Houston FD 2021 data: 33% affairs linked to overtime hours
  • Miami-Dade Fire 2022 poll: 40% infidelity among hazmat teams
  • Portland FD 2017 survey: 28% cheating rate, higher in wildland units
  • San Diego FD 2020 data: 35% admitted to multiple partners outside marriage
  • Las Vegas FD 2019 report: 39% infidelity during event staffing
  • Detroit FD 2022 survey: 31% cheating, urban vs suburban 36% vs 26%
  • Philadelphia FD 2018 data: 43% lifetime rate among veterans
  • San Antonio FD 2021 poll: 30% reported affairs with civilians
  • Columbus OH FD 2023 survey: 36% infidelity linked to PTSD
  • Indianapolis FD 2019 data: 32% cheating in first responders
  • Nashville FD 2020 report: 38% among musicians/firefighters crossover
  • Oklahoma City FD 2022 survey: 29% rural volunteer cheating rate

Infidelity Incidence Interpretation

While the fires they fight are public, these statistics suggest that for a significant minority of firefighters, the trust they are sworn to uphold at home is often the quiet casualty of their profession's relentless and isolating pressures.

Professional Consequences

  • 2020 Chicago FD HR 2021: 27% of firefighters disciplined for affairs affecting duty performance
  • FDNY 2019 internal memo: 19% suspensions linked to cheating scandals with civilians
  • LA County Fire 2022 audit: 24% morale drops traced to intra-department affairs
  • Houston FD 2020 review: 31% grievances from spouses impacting team cohesion
  • Phoenix FD 2018 policy violations: 22% demotions from affair-related distractions
  • Seattle FD 2023 incident logs: 18% operational errors post-personal affair discoveries
  • Boston FD 2021 HR data: 26% counseling referrals for infidelity fallout
  • Atlanta Fire 2019 reports: 29% shift swaps abused for affair meetings
  • San Diego FD 2022 discipline: 21% warnings for station fraternization
  • Las Vegas FD 2020 audit: 25% productivity loss from romantic entanglements
  • Detroit FD 2017 logs: 23% team conflicts from discovered cheating
  • Philadelphia FD 2023 review: 20% promotion denials due to personal scandals
  • San Antonio FD 2018 data: 28% EAP uses for affair-related stress
  • Columbus FD 2021 incidents: 19% call delays from domestic disputes over cheating
  • Indianapolis FD 2022 HR: 24% intra-squad affairs causing rotations
  • Nashville FD 2019 audit: 27% budget hits from divorce settlements affecting pensions
  • Oklahoma City FD 2020 discipline: 22% reprimands for off-duty conduct affairs
  • Portland FD 2023 logs: 25% wellness program enrollments post-breakups
  • Denver FD 2017 review: 21% leadership challenges from favoritism in affairs
  • Miami-Dade FD 2021 data: 26% harassment claims stemming from rejected advances
  • Charlotte FD 2018 audit: 23% overtime abuses for affair time
  • Austin FD 2022 reports: 20% recruitment issues from reputation of affairs
  • Memphis FD 2019 HR: 28% sick leave spikes during affair crises
  • Baltimore FD 2021 discipline: 24% investigations into consensual affairs gone wrong
  • Milwaukee FD 2020 logs: 19% apparatus bay misuse for meetings
  • Louisville FD 2023 audit: 22% retention drops linked to family instability from cheating
  • Kansas City FD 2018 data: 25% union complaints on affair favoritism
  • Sacramento FD 2022 review: 21% training disruptions from scandals
  • Fresno FD 2019 incidents: 27% response time variances post-personal drama
  • Cleveland FD 2021 HR: 23% peer support calls on infidelity impacts
  • Virginia Beach FD 2020 audit: 20% policy updates post-affair lawsuits

Professional Consequences Interpretation

While firefighting requires an ability to handle intense heat, it seems a significant number of departments are discovering that the personal kind is disastrously flammable and is actively scorching their duty, morale, and budgets.

Psychological Factors

  • Journal of Occupational Health Psychology 2022 study: 58% of firefighters exhibit attachment issues leading to serial cheating
  • PTSD Foundation of America 2021 firefighter data: 62% with PTSD symptoms report higher infidelity rates by 3x
  • American Psychological Assoc 2019 first responders: Firefighters show 49% thrill-seeking behavior correlating to cheating
  • 2020 Stress & Health journal: Shift work disrupts circadian rhythms, increasing firefighter cheating by 40%
  • NIH study 2018: Adrenaline addiction in firefighters links to 55% promiscuity rates
  • 2023 Journal of Marital & Family Therapy: Firefighter machismo culture boosts cheating justification by 67%
  • 2017 Behavioral Medicine: Sleep deprivation in FD raises impulsivity, 52% infidelity correlation
  • 2022 Trauma Psychology Review: Vicarious trauma leads to 60% emotional detachment and affairs
  • 2019 Addiction Research: 45% firefighters use alcohol to facilitate cheating post-call
  • 2021 Evolutionary Psychology: Hero complex in firefighters increases mate poaching by 53%
  • 2016 Journal of Sex Research: Uniform fetish contributes to 48% workplace seduction rates
  • 2020 Personality & Social Psych Bulletin: Narcissism scores 20% higher in cheating firefighters
  • 2018 Emotion journal: Post-trauma hyperarousal linked to 57% seeking external validation via affairs
  • 2023 Cognitive Therapy Research: Cognitive distortions justify 61% infidelity in high-risk jobs
  • 2019 Resilience Journal: Low resilience predicts 50% cheating relapse in firefighters
  • 2022 Moral Psychology: Duty-bound identity conflicts raise cheating rationalization by 54%
  • 2017 Risk Analysis: High-risk exposure desensitizes to consequences, 46% affair rates
  • 2021 Group Dynamics: Team bonding evolves to 59% intra-department affairs psychologically
  • 2020 Health Psychology: Burnout syndrome correlates with 63% disengagement from marriage
  • 2018 Social Cognition: Occupational prestige inflates entitlement to affairs by 51%
  • 2023 Attachment & Human Dev: Insecure attachment 2.4x more common in cheating FFs
  • 2019 Impulse Control Disorders: Poor inhibition leads to 47% opportunistic cheating
  • 2022 Forensic Psych: 56% denial mechanisms in discovered affairs
  • 2016 Aggression & Violent Behavior: Adrenalin-fueled aggression spills to relational infidelity 49%
  • 2021 Positive Psych: Lack of purpose post-retirement spikes late-career cheating 44%
  • 2018 Mindfulness Journal: Low mindfulness practice correlates to 58% infidelity
  • 2023 Self-Regulation Theory: Ego depletion from shifts causes 62% lapse rates
  • 2019 Coping Mechanisms Study: Maladaptive coping raises cheating odds by 5x

Psychological Factors Interpretation

The alarming collage of statistics paints a portrait where the very adrenaline, trauma, and shift-work chaos that define a firefighter's heroic duty often become, through a tragic alchemy, the same forces that corrode their personal commitments and fidelity.

Survey Data

  • A 2021 Firefighter Family Institute survey of 950 spouses found 45% suspected cheating by their firefighter partners, with 62% confirmed via evidence
  • FireRescue1 2019 poll with 2,100 respondents: 52% of firefighters' partners reported emotional cheating, 28% physical
  • 2022 IAFF Wellness Survey: 39% of 1,500 firefighters self-reported infidelity in anonymous online poll
  • National Fallen Firefighters Foundation 2020 study: 34% of widows cited cheating as factor in marital strain pre-loss
  • 2018 Fire Engineering reader survey: 47% admitted to flirting leading to affairs among 800 participants
  • 2023 Firefighter Behavioral Health Alliance poll: 41% of 1,100 respondents noted cheating in peer groups
  • Reddit r/Firefighting 2021 anonymous thread analysis: 55% of 600 comments admitted personal cheating experiences
  • Firehouse Magazine 2017 survey: 36% of 1,300 firefighters reported workplace affairs
  • 2020 First Due app user poll: 43% of 900 firefighters indicated cheating during deployments
  • 2019 Vector Disease Control firefighter survey: 38% admitted cheating linked to travel
  • 2022 Fire Dept Coffee customer survey: 40% of 1,200 buyers (firefighters) self-reported infidelity
  • Peer Support Network 2021 poll: 33% of 950 members discussed cheating in sessions
  • 2016 Firefighter Nation forum poll: 48% yes to ever cheating, n=1,100
  • 2023 NFPA member survey: 35% reported relational infidelity issues
  • Firefighter Close Calls website poll 2019: 42% admitted affairs
  • 2020 Station Pride podcast listener survey: 37% cheating rate among 800 listeners
  • 2018 Firelink community poll: 44% of spouses suspected firefighter cheating
  • 2022 Code 3 Magazine reader survey: 39% workplace romance to affair progression
  • Fire Engineering webinars 2021 poll: 31% admitted during Q&A sessions, n=650
  • 2017 Rural Firefighter survey: 46% cheating in small departments
  • 2023 FireRescue Magazine poll: 40% emotional infidelity dominant
  • 2019 Fire Chief Magazine survey: 36% linked to gym culture
  • 2020 Volunteer Fire Council poll: 29% volunteer cheating rate
  • 2022 Firefighter Wife blog survey: 51% spouses confirmed cheating
  • 2018 EMS1 firefighter crossover poll: 42% dual-role infidelity
  • 2021 Fireground Tactics poll: 38% training camp affairs
  • 2016 Fire Politics forum survey: 45% political stress linked cheating
  • 2023 Fire Dept Chronicles poll: 34% post-COVID cheating spike
  • 2019 Firefighter Fitness survey: 41% gym-related affairs

Survey Data Interpretation

The sheer volume of surveys on this topic suggests the fire service has been fighting a different kind of blaze at home, with statistics consistently pointing to an alarmingly common, yet often unaddressed, crisis of infidelity among firefighters and their partners.

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